david,
IMHO, you won't have time to do all that in one day. The trip to the Jungfrau alone will take at least half a day, as you'll need to include travel time from Interlaken to Lauterbrunnen, then to Kleine Scheidegg and finally to the Jungfraujoch. It will cost you a small fortune to get there, so I'd suggest spending some time there to get your "money's worth". It will take time to tour the Ice Caves, visit the Sphinx Observatory and perhaps venture outside if the weather is favourable.
You should be able to visit Trummelbach Falls on the same day. When you return to Lauterbrunnen at the conclusion of your visit to the Jungfraujoch, take the Post Bus to Trummelbach Falls. If you get back to Interlaken earlier in the afternoon, you should also be able to visit Harder Kulm, however that would depend on the time. The last trip from Interlaken is at 18:55 on workdays, returning at 18:40. On other days the last trip up is at 17:55, returning at 18:10. Another option would be to skip Trummelbach Falls and head straight to Harder Kulm after the Jungfrau.
I don't think a cruise on the lakes will be possible, unless you skip something else such as the Jungfrau.
Some compromises will be necessary (again IMO).