WengenK, your suggestions are good for apartments and homes, but the problem is that a lot of hotel rooms do not have the possibility for guests to set up cross breezes, install insect screens, etc. And to be honest, quite a few of the nice older hotels are not modern buildings that keep heat out. Some of the hottest, most uncomfortable nights I have spent in Switzerland were at hotels, including in Wengen. I do think more hotels should probably invest in screens for their windows so people can keep them open at night without bugs, and put fans in all rooms without people having to ask for them.
As for the summers, many hotels still use the old excuse that "it's only bad a few nights a year" - unfortunately this is no longer true, especially in lower elevation places. The 7 warmest years since records began in 1864 have all come since 2010 and it's pretty clear that this trend will continue. I don't think AC will be installed everywhere due to expense and environmental issues (and even where it is installed here, there are often rules about how low the temperature can be set which do not match most Americans' expectations). Generally it does cool down pretty well in the mountains, so wouldn't worry as much there, especially in the earlier and later part of the summer - the cities are a different story and "heat islands" are becoming a big issue here, especially in older buildings.
I would say for mid-June through August, if you are very sensitive to heat, you will want A/C in the cities. Just be aware that the a/c offered here (and elsewhere in Europe) may not be as cold as what you are used to the in the US. In the mountains, it is harder to find hotels with A/C and it is less of a must-have. If you're worried about heat, perhaps better to rent an apartment where you can at least have multiple windows to air things out in the evening as WengenK suggested. In this case, the original poster should be fine in Lauterbrunnen.