I'm planning an October trip into Madrid and out of Barcelona with a few other cities in the mix (my wife and I are most excited about Grenada). It's been a long while since we've done multi-city traveling. I've roughed out an itinerary, but I'm nervous that we're trying to do too much, particularly in the cities where we haven't allotted a full day (Toledo, Cordoba). This isn't the Amazing Race; we want to have time to enjoy ourselves and soak it all in. At the same time, I have FOMO tendencies (there's a decent chance I'll never go back; I can't afford trips like this very often and there's so much more of the world to see). My wife and I are in our 40s, but I'm more gung ho/FOMO than she is. Advice on keeping a less-gung-ho companion happy?
Second, I'd love your general advice on multi-city travel, with particular attention to what could be a quick tour through Toledo, Cordoba, Seville, and Grenada. What's the best time of day to travel between cities? What do we do with our bags while we're seeing the sights? Where should we go for food, particularly if we don't have a lot of time? What kind of lodging should I get and in what neighborhood (to AirBnB or not to AirBnB, etc.)? Take taxis between sights? Sign up for tours? (I know about getting advanced tickets for train, plane, Alhambra, Gaudi sights.) Basically, how do we travel smart, stay happy?
Here's the rough itin. To keep things more reasonably paced, we're going to have to cut at least one city (probably Toledo, likely also Cordoba) in favor of more leisurely time elsewhere.
Sorry for so many questions. And thanks in advance for your insights!
Madrid - Arrive by air in AM, recover/reorient, Plaza Mejor, Grand Via
Madrid - Prado, Mercado San Miguel
Madrid - Reina Sofía
Madrid - Thyssen Museum, Madrid Street Art
Toledo - Afternoon train to Toledo, sights in Toledo (Catedral), overnight in Toledo [likely cut]]
Cordoba - Morning sights in Toledo (Alcázar), early PM train to Madrid then Cordoba, overnight in Cordoba [likely cut]]
Seville - Morning sights in Cordoba (Mezquita, Roman Bridge), early PM train to Seville, overnight in Seville
Seville - Full day in Seville (Seville Cathedral, Real Alcázar, Casa De Pilatos, Mercado Barranca), overnight in Seville
Grenada - Morning bus or train to Grenada. Afternoon sights (Cathedral, Royal Chapel)
Grenada - Full day of sights in Grenada (Alhambra, Generalife, Nasrid, Carrera del Darro)
Barcelona - Morning flight to Barcelona, get settled in Barcelona
Barcelona - Casa Batlló, Casa Milà
Barcelona - Sagrada Família
Barcelona - La Boqueria, Park Güell
Fly home in PM