Hi my husband and I are trying to plan our first trip to Spain in May for about 8-10 days (we have some flexibility). Having an extremely hard time figuring out how to narrow down where we should go. The purpose of this trip is to see the highlights, immerser ourselves in the culture, food/wine, and unique landscapes that Spain has to offer. We want this trip to be varied yet relaxing. We don't expect to see every last thing in each place.
Places we're interested in include Barcelona (with a day trip to Monserrat), Madrid (with day trips to Toledo and/or Segovia, ideally both), Seville, Cordoba (either as a daytrip from Seville or an overnight), and Granada
I am well aware that this is too much for a max of 10 days. Can anyone suggest how to do at least most of this? We would prefer to have fewer hotel changes and minimize travel between cities as much as possible. I have made about 5 preliminary itineraries cutting out various cities and each time I'm left feeling sad about not going to those particular places haha.
Some specific questions I had include:
Is it better to do Cordoba as an overnight or day trip from Seville? (asking in the setting of not having a lot of time, we're aware you'll always get more out of an overnight). Sub-question: since we're going in May, we would be there for the patio festival - would that impact anything in terms of travel to this area? Would that be a reason to stay overnight rather than day trip or vice versa?
If we only have time for one day trip out of Madrid, would you choose Toledo or Segovia?
Out of the places I listed, if we had to cut something out, what should we cut? Was thinking Granada because it mostly feels like a side trip and a bit out of the way, despite how wonderful it looks. Interested in hearing thoughts.
If I had to cut out one big city, would it be Barcelona, Madrid, or Seville? Was thinking it made most sense to skip Madrid since we are not as interested in museums and was mostly using it has a home base to visit Toledo and Segovia, though those two cities would be cut too unfortunately if we didn't stay in Madrid.
Thank you for any input! My brain is scrambled eggs weighing all the different options!