NursCyn, definitely do what’s right for you, even if it’s a difficult decision. I’m not in the healthcare field, but we’re heading for London for a week-and-a-half in 8 days - no plans to cancel, and then at this point, still plan a 2-month trip to Scotland and Scandinavia this summer. Then Rome in the fall. We’re older than you two, maybe not wiser, but are sticking with our plans to travel.
A friend who flew home from California last week, and isn’t sick, said she wore a medical mask on the plane at her mother’s insistence, and people all moved away from her. She wound up with unexpected extra elbow and leg room, with a perimeter of empty seats around her!
Whatever your decision, be happy with it, don’t look back, don’t second-guess yourselves. You have reasons for the decision, and that’s why you made it. Be well, and enjoy your next trip, whenever that is.