Hello
We arrive in Italy on Dec 12 and fly out on the 31st, 2015. Originally, we were looking for snow fun, but as the weather is so unpredictable we are now looking for a more traditional tour of Italy. We will fly into Rome and out of Milan or the reverse. I am most concerned about where to spend the actual Christmas holiday as I have a son and we need to have a place Santa can visit and I don't want to feel as if we are isolated in some sterile hotel. In addition, I know the holidays can get booked up quickly, and can be expensive. We are on a limited budget and prefer Bed and Breakfast style accommodations rather than hotels.
Possible places on our list are Pompeii, Rome, Florence, Bologna, Verona, Venice, Milan and possible trip to Italian alps or Dolomites. I know this is a lot and we only have 3 weeks so any suggestions on what to drop or how long we will need at each place would be great. We will NOT have a car, but plan on using bus and rail. While I know "everywhere" in Italy will be beautiful and fun, I am really looking for some guidance. I have been to Italy a few times but my husband and son have not. We enjoy just about everything (food, museums, walks through neighborhoods, architecture, music, futbol, glass blowing, etc etc) but of course are looking for things that a 12 year old will enjoy as well.
Questions?
Better to start in the South and work our way up? (I'm guessing it gets colder as we go, might have a more Christmassy feel but may be more expensive for Christmas?)
Start in the North and work our way down? (Would this give us nicer weather for more of the trip? Is this a cheaper option?)
Maybe Start in Rome and day trip to Pompeii and then settle in Verona and do day trips to Bologna, Venice ?
Are there any "special" less mainstream festivals or events happening in some locale that we shouldn't miss?
Any friendly, clean, family run or oriented accommodations with easy access to attractions?
I would really appreciate any and all suggestions. My husband and son will celebrate their birthdays on this trip as well as Christmas and consequently I am feeling overwhelmed and really want to plan a nice vacation.