What to do when spending Christmas alone in Italy

I would look for a Christmas lunch or dinner targeted at ex-pats, the common language of which is usually English. I did that type of Thanksgiving dinner one year in Florence and it was a lot of fun - good group, good food, good conversation. I found the dinner using The Florentine, an English language publication for ex-pats. I'm sure Rome must have an equivalent publication that would advertise groups or restaurants offering such a Christmas meal.

Are there church services you could attend? After all, the Holy Family is the true focus of the holiday despite the American emphasis on it being about our own families. Part of the reason people feel lonely at Christmas is because of all the hype in the U.S. about it being a family time. I realize it may be hard, but resist the temptation to let American customs define the holiday for you.

I like Frank's idea.

We also try to spend the holidays in alternative ways. Some of our most memorable Thanksgiving and Christmas celebrations is volunteering to help feed the homeless and less fortunate. I know the Catholic Church has such programs. I'm not sure how you would find where and how to volunteer, but I bet it could be done.

In addition to the big cities, I would try to find a smaller town that has such a celebration. I'm sure you could make new friends by volunteering and helping.

Here are some links:
https://www.thelocal.it/20171214/how-to-donate-your-time-or-money-across-italy-this-christmas

https://www.santegidio.org/pageID/30156/langID/en/CHRISTMAS-LUNCH.html

Hey angela,

What part of Italy? I went in December, but not during Christmas week. But Rome started to dress up the city while I was there.

Traveling solo can be fun and some people travel that way for a number of reasons. In Italy, you "won't be alone." Of course, I don't know your personality - if you are shy or outgoing. I'm very outgoing and had great times, great laughs and great memories.

Be approachable. I can start a small conversation and end up talking an hour or two, lol. While browsing a store last year and some conversation, I was asked by the Italian man that worked there if I would like to go for coffee. He brought me to a nice coffee bar. Thereafter, we walked quite a bit around Rome. I was taking it all in. A very nice time and memory. Of course, I went with my instincts. He was very nice.

Another event: I was walking to the Vatican; stopped in a big gift store that is on the way to buy a bit ticket for later on. One of the owners and I struck up a conversation for a very long time. He was planning a trip to the USA this past Spring. I met three of his eight siblings. We lost track of time (in between customers) so that I decided to just walk around St. Peter's piazza. The tree and Nativity - wow! The next morning, I went very early to the Vatican and St. Peter's. On my return, I walked back to the gift store, exchanged well wishes and good byes.

Rome: I'm not presuming one way or another about your practices, but, The Pantheon hosts a midnight mass in Italian. The Pantheon is a beautiful setting inside. If you are up that late, be there at least one hour before. Dress warmly of course.

Oh, I may be a "wee bit biased," lol when it comes to the professional street musicians I happened upon at the Pantheon. Got an audible treat for sure. Coming out of the Pantheon, they were setting up. There guys were great! The lead singer's voice is very melodic and haunting when he sings some Italian ballards. I was mesmerized. They also can be heard at Piazza Navona (another treat) and Campo de' Fiori (near Bruno's statue.) They sometimes play a lot of Pink Floyd, lol. But, I will never forget his voice and the rest of his fellow musicians - all playing a different instrument.

Actually, most churches would be lovely. Do some research about churches in Italy. It may not be doable, but, Saint Peter's holds a Christmas Mass with the Pope. You need tickets (they may be sold out by now though.)

If you admire and honor the Nativity, https://www.tripsavvy.com/italian-nativity-displays-and-christmas-cribs-1547263

This is a few years old, but The Roman Guy is still around. Browse the article and maybe get some ideas. https://theromanguy.com/italy-travel-blog/italy/things-to-do-italy/christmas-in-italy/

Maybe they still have fun activities regarding Befana - with kids around, you'll never be lonely.

I am not sure about Christmas markets in Rome. I think over the last few years, they sort of faded out.

Or, if Rome would be a bit overwhelming for you, how about Orvieto? A smaller hill town that is cozy. I've not been (will include this year.) But from what I've seen and read about it, maybe you'll enjoy walking around there.

Good point Cala.

How about doing an Eatwith meal? We hope to do it again on our trip this winter. You eat with other people in homes. Enjoy!