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What is Your Epic Day In Rome?

My wife and I will be in Rome in September, and it will include her 60th birthday while we are there. We have to Rome been before and saw the Vatican, the coliseum, and the other main tourist attractions. We loved the city so much that we are returning for two days, on our way to the Amalfi coast.

I want to surprise her with a special day in Rome for her birthday. I don't know the city well enough to have any ideas though. So, I am hopeful that one of you may have the perfect suggestion. My wife loves fashion, history, the old churches, excellent dining, and everything trendy. Any suggestions you may have for daytime activities within or near the city will be appreciated. Also, any romantic, fun, trendy restaurant suggestions for dinner will also be greatly appreciated!

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I haven't been in Rome lately, but you will more than likely get some great suggestions here.

I just wanted to say that you sound like a CATCH!

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What a wonderful idea!

Everyone’s idea of “romantic” is probably different, but our favorite evenings in Rome last year included dinner at Terme di Diocleziano, on Via Viminale.

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Take a food tour! We went on Eating Europe's "Twilight Trastevere" tour and it was very enjoyable-delicious food and entertaining guide. Our only regret was that it was at the end of our stay so we couldn't return to our favorite restaurant for a full meal. Eating Europe (and other companies) offer several food tours in Rome; some coincide with lunch time.

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I second Den's suggestion of a Food Tour and the Twightly Trastevere is fun and trendy, not overtly romantic. For a romantic dinner in an historic setting, try Spirito di Vino (in Trastevere). They. are a family owned restaurant, a key contributor to the slow food movement, and they have a wine cellar that is older than the Colosseum. The food is outstanding.

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Make a reservation at Armando al Pantheon online a few months ahead.

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On our recent trip, I think my favourite was the Borghese gallery. However you do need to book ahead for this. We arrived early, had a snack and espresso in its little bar area and then toured the floors. Saw the borghese gardens and then caught a taxi to the other side of town ( which was fun) to the Testaccio market.

We were staying fairly near there in the Avenida district. If you want to avoid crowds, take a wander up there. There are two ( at least) lovely churches, and a nice park. For dinner both nights we just walked over to Testaccio and picked a restaurant at random in the little streets. Both meals were fabulous. We did find one or two were booked up, but had no trouble finding another. I did try to figure out which ones they were to make a recommendation, but just haven't found it.

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Hmmm? Trendy. How about unusual?

The last time I was in Rome (2017), my epic day was spent on the back of a Vespa taking a tour of street art. I was 71 with bad knees and weighed about 200 pounds at the time. It was unique, not cheap and I loved every minute! My Vespa driver/guide picked me up in front of the apartment I was renting and brought me back home there.

A little antsy about riding on the back of a Vespa? You could both go in an Ape Calessino. They even have a romantic Twilight Tour that ends up in Trastevere. And who are "they"? The company is Scooteroma: https://scooteroma.com/

This link is to the Ape Calessino page: https://scooteroma.com/tours/ape-calessino-tour/.

This one is to the Vespa street art tour: https://scooteroma.com/tours/street-art-vespa-tour/.

If I did it again, I'd probably do the Double Street Tour that also finishes up in Trastevere: https://scooteroma.com/tours/double-street-vespa-tour/.

Their tours can be customized any way you'd like. You can see the general variety of types by clicking on Tours at the top of any of the pages I linked.

BTW, before I signed up I verified that my travel insurance would cover me if needed and the answer was yes.

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Sorry to hijack your thread, but this response is for Lo.

Next time I'm in Roma I'm doing that! A tour on the back of a Vespa, that's for me! And I'm older than you!

Wayne, you sound like a wonderful guy!

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Hmmm. I've already lived my epic day in Rome, and it was like the few days before and few days after. The delicious routine we established in February 2017 was almost like I lived there...

Apartment window overlooking the Campo de' Fiori, at about 6AM I could hear the daily vendors dragging their stands and carts across the cobblestones to set up for the day. That sound and their catcalls to each other woke me up. I dressed for a brisk walk, wife still asleep, and ambled down towards the Tiber, walked along the bank for a few minutes and doubled back around to my favorite tabacchi shop, which also had a coffee bar for my morning espresso & cornetto. The barista knew me the second day.

Back to the Campo, wife up now, we walked downstairs to the market and bought strawberries from Basilicata, blood orange from Sicily, various rolls & cheeses. Made cafe Americano with a Lavazza shrink-wrapped block of coffee through a Melitta filter. And the daily question, 'what do we want to do today?'. Fortunately, rain was never in the forecast--amazing for winter in Italy--and temps were 40-60, so as long as I had my laminated bus/Metro labyrinthine schedule, we could figure out how to get there, which usually included going through Termini station! I'll give you three destinations not usually in the tour books:

1) Baths of Diocletian/Roman Museum-- in plain sight across the street from Termini, amazing structure showing how ancient Romans conducted business, along with all classes of Romans as well. The adjacent Roman Museum has artifacts from the 11th century BC, I believe the Bronze Age.

2) St. Peter in Chains (San Pietro in Vincoli) -- very cool sculptures

3) Villa Torlonia -- up via Nomentana from central Rome towards the north, this is a mostly-abandoned small estate that Mussolini owned & lived in before and during WWII. You could almost see him, arms crossed, on one of the balconies.

Just an example of our daily activities, all usable with the weekly bus/Metro pass, 24 Euro in 2017. And I could find 'deep dive' attractions like these for weeks, and still not scratch the surface. We'd maybe grab a pizza slice or take-away panini somewhere along the way. Late afternoon, the 'dogs' were tired and we'd return to the apartment for usually a 2-hour nap before heading out for dinner around 8PM.

There are a multitude of high quality, unsung trattorias within walking distance of the Campo, and we stumbled upon a couple of great ones--Elle Effe, where we walked by during the morning, saw the owner outside and chatted him up. He's from Catania, Sicily and his cuisine reflects it. No-cheese Sicilian thin pizza with anchovies, black olives and red pepper flakes was unique. Then--upon a recommendation from columnist Katie Parla--we found the Roscioli family's Ristorante Emma for signature spaghetti alla carbonara and 'only in Rome' puntarelle salad, chicory greens served with olive oil, anchovies and salt. Fantastic.

The evening would wind down with a stop for gelato at any choice of top class joints along the way. Crema & riso flavors were my favorite, and an evening walk around the square, as the young adults were just gearing up their nights. And then we'd retire to the apartment...to sleep and do the same thing the next day, with different attractions of course.

You've been to Rome before, so whatever floats your boat to make it special will work--you have a blank canvas. For me, for us, the joy of pretending to live in Rome, if only for a week, was our sweet spot. We hope to do it again, for at least a month, during a winter very soon.

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No suggestions to add, but how very thoughtful of you! I'm sure she will be pleased with your efforts and special attention.

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We to have been lucky enough to have been to Rome, a number of times, so yeah, my plan would not include major sites. Someone mentioned a food tour, that or a cooking class would be fun. My wife really enjoyed this one: https://cookingclassesinrome.com/ He can fit you into a group, she said it was fun, cooked a full meal, made pasta, a little wine. He was also able to accommodate my wife's dietary preferences.

Aside from that, we enjoy wandering, checking up on old haunts. We stayed mostly in the Trastevere, so have a bakery with pizza by the kilo, a few gelato spots, not necessarily a "must have" favorite restaurant, but lots of options for small places with a few tables and a short daily menu.

An, afterthought: Churches, one of our favorite things (well, mine; my wife has had her fill of churches) is to just pop into a random church as you wander (there is one on every street it seems). Even the most humble looking place from the street can offer any number of wonders inside.

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My husband and I did ScooterRoma. It was amazing and absolute blast. We each had our own scooter, as we own a Vespa, but they can take you as a rider if you would rather do that. The drivers in Rome are aware and yield to scooters and bikes. Everyone scooters there, so we felt really cool to be a part of the scooter world. I think alot of people knew we were Americans, so we'd get some waves and cheers as we drove by.

https://scooteroma.com/

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Gillian Longworth McGuire (an American living in Rome), sent the following suggestions in her latest newsletter. Maybe one of these will interest your wife.

Pigneto Photography workshop

Marco Sconocchia is an accomplished street photographer who lives and works in the neighborhood. I am wild about his work, particularly his Tevere Grand Hotel project that tells the story of people living along the banks of the Tevere. He has created a walking photography tour in the neighborhood of Pigneto. Whether you are a photographer with a serious camera looking to deepen your craft or a visitor interested in seeing a different part of Rome this is the tour for you.

Devour Cooking class in Rome

One of the questions I am asked the most (after where is this? the cousin to the food writer’s bête noire, recipe?) is for cooking class recommendations. My list is pretty short. There are a few reasons why. I am a pretty decent home cook. And while I do know how to make fresh pasta, I have professional pasta makers really close to my house. I have a new place to share with you. A sleek gorgeous space that just opened in Trastevere. It is not a restaurant. It is where Walks of Italy and Devour Tours host their cooking classes in Rome. You can spend a morning or an afternoon learning how to make fresh pasta like spaghetti alla chitarra and ravioli stuffed with lemon-speckled ricotta from scratch. I learned a few new Amatriciana tricks too. The best part is that you get to sit down and enjoy everything you created with a glass of wine and dessert.

Sketching tours with Kelly Medford

One of the loveliest ways to capture your time in Rome is with a sketchbook filled with your drawings. You can do just that with a sketching Rome tour. Spend a few hours among the ancient columns and temples with my pal Kelly learning how to see Rome with an artist’s eye. No experience is necessary and no erasers are allowed. All the materials you need are provided and include a handmade sketchbook that is yours to keep.

Personal shopping in Rome

My pal Zachery Diggs worked in luxury retail in Manhattan for more than 15 years. Now he lives in Italy and he brought all of that knowledge with him. If you are visiting Rome or Florence he can show you around the famous and sometimes intimidating big-name designer stores and the small local boutiques. If you are not traveling or if are searching for a particular piece, Lux Eye Spy can do the shopping for you and have it sent directly to your door.

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How about a drink at one of the roof top bars-I thought the terrace atop hotel Raphael or American Bar at top of hotel Forum.

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Without knowing your wife's personality and enjoyment level of specific things...I have a couple of things I am doing on my upcoming trip that are a little bit unique and will give my adventure its own personal touch.

I am doing a cooking class. There are a number of cooking classes available via Viator, Tripadvisor, Airbnb, etc. For different skill levels and different cuisines. If your wife is a cook....and genuinely LOVES to cook.....this might be right up her alley.

Will her birthday be on a Sunday by any chance? If so, the Appian Way could be a nice little jaunt.

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Thank you everyone who took the time to post. I really appreciate it. There are lots of good and some great ideas! I haven't finalized our plans yet but if it turns into something truly memorable, I will post what we ended up doing.

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You’ve received some really great suggestions. I will only add to what Jay said, Rome is magical before everyone is awake and the tourists litter the city. Get up early explore the city at sunrise. It’s the best time to see Rome in my opinion.

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Thanks again to all who offered ideas. We ended up spending the day walking the Borghese Gardens and seeing the Borghese Gallery, then shopping near Spanish Steps. We were somewhat restricted as our bags were visiting Philadelphia as we were visiting Rome. They arrived about 60 minutes before the birthday dinner so it did work out, but it definitely added some stress to the day.

We did attend a cooking class near Positano and i would highly recommend that.

Thanks again!