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Wedding and honeymoon in the Dolomites

Hi,
My fiancé and I are considering eloping to the Dolomites May 2024. We are in the process of looking at logistics for a civil ceremony in a town in the Dolomites, hiking the Dolomites for 3 -4 days and then taking the train from the Dolomites to Florence and spending 3 days there. We were thinking of either flying to Venice and driving to the Dolomites, driving back to Venice and flying to Florence or taking the train from the Dolomites to Florence. Also we considered flying to Munich and driving from Munich to the Dolomites, driving back to Munich and flying to Florence from there. We will have up to 14 days travel total or approximately 12 days in Italy. Considering we need to arrive a few days early to acquire the proper documents in time. Is this a reasonable amount of time, given what we want to accomplish? Also, any suggestions on best way to travel given this route via plane, driving or train?

Thanks!

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We flew into Salzburg and spent several day there (which we loved) and then went to the Dolomites .
You might consider that as a option..
congratulations on your upcoming wedding..

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May does seem iffy for mountain hiking. Maybe base in Bolzano, nice town to explore, Otzi exhibit is amazing, easy access to mountains, and great biking if the higher ground is still snowed in. We found Venice far more walkable and interesting than Florence (if one had to choose). We kicked around Verona for half a day en route to Dolomites and enjoyed it. Trains are the only way to get around Italy, unless you need to cover a very long distance fast. Generally don't need to book in advance, just grab the next one going your way (we used Trainline app). Far more relaxing than city driving or dealing with airports (advance arrival, security lines, general chaos). We were in western Dolomites mid-June last year, not crowded and pretty much snow-free. We stayed in Castelrotto at a place RS suggested. Congrats!

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Good Morning,

You can legally get married in Italy but Pat is correct----there is a lot of beaucracy to get through. We are not catholic and we did not want a civil ceremony. We just celebrated our 39th anniversary and it was well worth it.

First we had to have the correct paperwork filled out here in the states and luckily we live in Atlanta because we had to visit an Italian Consulate along with 4 witnesses to prove we were who we said we were,

We had also contacted an English speaking minister from the UK before leaving the US and he was thrilled to walk us through all the steps and "stamps" needed to legally do the ceremony once we arrived in Rome. It took 4 days to complete all the steps but the minister was great and even acted as our tour guild during part of our stay.

If you have any questions please feel free to message me.

Congratulation!

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Just to give an idea; for Italians, the civil marriage must be preceded by banns, and when banns terms are expired there is a preparatory meeting at the comune where the marriage will take place; the meeting is to clear some important matters (like patrimonial status of the couple and checking all the documents are in order). This whole procedure may take a month (8 days including two Sundays are needed for the banns). Foreigners may be exempted from banns but not from the meeting, and will need documents from their residence consulate; I guess marrying in a small comune (like in the Dolomites) may be faster, but the procedure is still there and you have to be fluent in their language (in the Dolomites it may be German) or have a translator. After that a permit to marry is issued, you must find an empty spot in the comune calendar with a free mayor or councillor to officiate the marriage. The ceremony is allowed only at the place designated by the comune (usually the town hall). A wedding planner knowing the people at the commune may be very useful to set matter straights, but do not underestimate the needed work. I have heard about non Italians that managed to compress the procedure in a few days but never assume you can choose dates at your convenience; it is the other way round. - If the marriage is a Catholic one, the civil procedure is duplicated by a religious one; they are very similar, you need papers from your parish priests and the papers (including banns, if needed) will be collected by the local parish priest. A single Catholic ceremony will be considered valid from the civil side, but this means that both the comune and the parish priest must follow a common procedure; while you will need a Catholic priest (any is good) to officiate the marriage, the parish priest must be present as well as he has the proxy from the comune. - Residents have enough time to sort out the double procedure, this is again where a wedding planner can give a good evaluation of time needed and difficulties to navigate.

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Wow! Thank you so much! I already have a Zoom meeting with a wedding planner as I believe that will help with the logistics. We plan to fill out the necessary paperwork at the consulate in Los Angeles and already have birth certificates in hand!
I have also reached out to our local pastor to see if he may have any contacts in Italy to facilitate the wedding ceremony, but a civil ceremony will do!
We plan to keep a fairly loose itinerary understanding that we might have to double back to the Dolomites if that is necessary for a ceremony:)
Wish us luck!

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We have arrived and rented a car at Munich airport to visit the Dolomites. It’s about a 3.5 hour drive. Although you’d have to drive back to Germany to return the car. You may not need to drive all the way to Munich, as you could drop the car in Garmisch, Germany and then train back.

You could also fly to Munich, train to Innsbruck and rent a car there and return it there. Much less driving to and then back from the Dolomites.

Paul

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We think---not positive---the consulate gave us the list of English speaking ministers/churches. So you might ask there also.

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My husband and I have skied and hiked in the Dolomites a number of times. Our ski trips were usually scheduled for late March. And our hiking trips were in Sept or Oct. I remember that since the mountains are not very high, and it can become warm at that time, that sometimes we saw people hiking next to the ski slopes . There are beautiful towns in that area of the Sella Ronda. One of my favorites is Ortesie.