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Trip Planning Help for a Newbie to the Boot

Hello All,

First of all, thank you to any of you that venture into my little post here that were kind enough to respond to my request for help with choosing a flight. This message board reinforces my opinion that travelers are truly good people. We booked our flight last night! Whoo hoo!

Taking my first trip to Italy with my husband and preteen son this March.

We're planning in Rome, out Venice. Staying 4 nights in Rome and then the dilemma. Do we stay three nights in Cinque Terre and 2 nights in Venice or two nights in CT and 3 in Venice.

To clarify, we are nature lovers, not art gallery people. Our son loves to explore and will probably find the trains, narrow streets, new food (especially candy), and the stamps and money to be more interesting than museums.

We know a little bit about what the weather will be like in March. We know a little bit about what the areas offer, but would like realistic opinions about what might work best for a couple with a preteen boy. And what we can expect in terms of things to do to keep an explorer busy.

Ugh, as I write this, I think I'm making it more vague. Please ask for clarification as needed.

Thank you!

Posted by
1201 posts

I would do 2 nights CT and 3 in Venice.

Venice is a wonderful place to explore. My kids loved at that age. there will be lots to do and see in the city.

Posted by
3 posts

Elizabeth,
Hmm preteen boy...nature lovers...my 1st thought was CT...great walking, very adventurous..

but then Venice has great walking, trips in boats, and a labyrinthe of narrow "streets"...

so I don't think you can miss either way. Go to the library and find some fiction for juveniles on Italy, especially Venice. That should add to the fun. I've read all of Donna Leon's mysteries set in Venice (maybe not for a preteen) and it has certainly added to the depth of my perception of Venice.

Posted by
187 posts

And a book lover like me responds. Thanks for the recommendation! I was just searching for books to read while there.

I'm leaning towards more time in Venice. Concerned about having to fill potentially rainy days in CT.

Posted by
835 posts

We took our preteen (10 1/2yo at the time) daughter to Italy for her first trip last fall. We visited Venice, Florence and Rome, plus about a week in the less-touristy area of Le Marche. Our daughter loved it all!

As much as I enjoy the Cinque Terre, a 2-night visit in March might not be so great. Rainy days in Venice or Rome are much easier than in the CT! So I would suggest, also, skipping the CT for this trip, and add the time to Venice.

My daughter is a history/culture/museum person, as are we, but we also took plenty of time to just wander around Venice. It's a great place to do so. Italy is also full of churches and other smaller places where you can go in, enjoy the beauty, sculptures and paintings, and then leave, without being overloaded with an entire museum of world-class art.

Books for your son. There was a Roman series that our duaghter read that was reasonably accurate, The Roman Mysteries, by Carol Lawrence. Also, we picked up a book for Florence called "Kids Go Europe: Treasure Hunt Florence." They also have a similar book for Venice (but not Rome) - it was fun for our daughter, and small in size. I think she already knew a lot of the facts provided in the book, but it definitely made her more engaged and interested.

Some interesting places that may not immediately appear in the huge amounts of guidebook info:

  • Venice, San Zaccharia, a beautiful church, also has an ancient crypt below.
  • Venice - There's one bridge that has no railings; they used to all be like that, and groups of youths would fight on them, push each other off.
  • Rome, San Clemente a church built on an 4th-century church, built on a Mithraic Temple and an ancient Roman house. Very cool.

IMHO, candy in Europe is pretty similar to that in the U.S. But go into a pastry shop, point to what looks good (you don't need to know the name), and enjoy! And of course GELATO - it's a must!

Posted by
53 posts

I would spend more time in Cinque Terre. My husband and I spent two days in Venice and it was the perfect amount of time for us. Also, from CT you can easily take the train to Florence, Lucca or Pisa if it rains...they would all be great places to walk around with your son and explore!

Posted by
1633 posts

I like your itinerary. Two years ago when my son was 16, we visited the cities you mention except for Cinque Terre. He really enjoyed Rome and Venice. We also stopped in Orvieto (on the way to Rome) and Pisa (on the way to Orvieto). He and my husband enjoyed walking up the tower--they are physics geeks. If you add a day to Venice, maybe you can stop at Pisa on the way--just a thought. Have fun on your trip making lifetime memories--we definitely did.

Posted by
3281 posts

Hi Elizabeth,
I'll add my vote for 3 nights in CT and 2 in Venice!

Posted by
308 posts

Lots to do in Rome, but if you're not interested in museums so much, maybe try 3 nights in Rome, 3 in the CT, and 3 in Venice. The old section of Rome is fun to wander around. But after 3 hectic days in Rome the coastal CT is a nice break. No shortage of stuff to do there for teens too. Venice is wonderful for all ages, but get off the beaten path.

Posted by
3313 posts

I don't think he Cinque Terre would be all that appealing for 3 days in March. I'd spend more time in Venice.

Posted by
7737 posts

I agree that the CT in March could be pretty yucky, given the weather. Go to the FAQ site here for info on how to check weather history for a specific period.

Consider adding one more night to Rome so you can take a day trip to Ostia Antica. Your kid should have a blast there, exploring all the nooks and crannies. And it's very easy to get to by train from Rome.

Posted by
49 posts

There is no other place in the world like Venice.
My wife and I spent 5 days there last year.
We bought a 3 day vaporetto pass and it was wonderful.
Do not hesitate to stroll off the beaten path.