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Traveling Alone To Italy

Greetings all of you who helped me plan my previous (first)trip to Italy.

A year and a half ago I took my wife and her mother on a 12 day trip that started in Rome and ended in Paris, with 7 days in Tuscany and the Cinque Terre neatly tucked in the middle. There were many things I wanted to do or see, but compromised because the trip was a gift to them. One of them, who shall remain nameless, also left my RS Italy 2008 guidebook on a restaurant bench outside St. Peters Basilica on Day 2, which meant all of my notes, carefully marked pages and advice from many of you were not available in Florence, Siena, San Gimignano and the CT. You can't imagine what we missed and didn't find out that we missed it until watching RS's DVDs on our return.

Anyway, armed with a new Italy 2009 guidebook I am contemplating a return trip alone to some of the same places we visited, and wanted to ask your thoughts about a 63 year-old man in reasonably good health doing this by himself? (I did climb to the top of the Duomo, which I HIGHLY recommend to anyone going to Florence) Has anyone out there tried this alone, man or woman, and what could you share about your adventure. If not, can any of you share your thoughts, advice and/or concerns about my doing it this way. My time frame is about ten days around the last week of September or the first week of October, roughly the same time of year we did it in 2007. This trip does NOT, however, include Paris, for the locks would surely be changed when I returned home if it did. By the way, we stayed five nights in an apartment in Florence and cooked food each night that we bought in the piazza that morning. I'm not much of a cook, so hotels, B&B's, etc. would be better. Many thanks.

PS If anyone is interested in this area in the fall, Continental Airlines quoted me $603 + tax RT from NO to Rome.

Posted by
23626 posts

Jim, I see no reason why you could not do that. I personally would not do it because I don't like traveling alone. It would not be any more demanding physically that it was last year. And it probably would be a little less stressful because you only have to worry about yourself. Good Luck.

Posted by
1003 posts

Well, I was 25 when I did it, but I was by myself for 2 weeks in Venice (4 nights), Florence (5 nights), and Rome (5 nights). I say a big whole-hearted go for it. I think being there alone, you are forced to talk to the people around you and maybe have a more "intimate" experience with Italy because you have no one to talk to so you have to focus on what's around you. I met wonderful locals, stayed in wonderful hotels and B&Bs, ate wonderful meals, saw wonderful things, and in general had an absolutely wonderful time and I'm happily going back this fall. Being alone, the whole thing was on my schedule, on my terms, catered to my very last hope, dream, desire, and whim, and it was all around exactly how I wanted it. My successes, my mistakes, everything. I'm an only child so I grew up doing things by myself, so after maybe the first meal asking for a table for one, I was totally comfortable with it. I think solo travel is a lot more common and a lot more normal over there. I wasn't told I could only eat at the bar, nor was I put at the crappy table by the bathroom or whatever. I was treated warmly and welcomed all the same. So I guess I'm not sure exactly what the question is that you're trying to get answered, but I say, GO FOR IT, have a blast, and start planning the NEXT trip on the plane ride home :)

Posted by
570 posts

Thanks to all of you for your quick responses. Frank makes a good point about being alone, but I'm told that when you're by yourself "all decisions are unanimous", and that's what I'm looking for here. Simply to see everything I missed, and somethings we didn't even try to see. I spend a lot of time on the road in my job, which I know is not the same, but other than the ongoing fear of the language barrier which was not a problem last time, I'm OK with being alons. Kent, it's so good to hear from you again. You were such a HUGE help when we went before. You may not remember, but I even emailed you with a question from a cyber cafe in Florence and you of course responded quickly. Glad you're still here sharing your bits of wisdom.

I felt so embarrassed for even being concerned about the trip after reading the responses from NanC and Nancy. What a sissy I must have sounded like.

Posted by
155 posts

Omigosh, go, Jim. I went in '07 when I was 77. Spent one week with 2 daughters, spent 2 weeks alone in Tuscany, son came over for the last week.

During the time I was alone I drove thru Toscana every day, stopping at little communes and towns, eating pizza and gelato and pannini everyday. Got lost coming home from Siena and got mixed up in the traffic in Florence.

Talked to everyone I met.

It was a marvelous adventure.

Go for it...

Posted by
10344 posts

Jim: I well remember your first trip, it was good helping you, because you were enthusiastic, detail oriented, and responded well to suggestions. I especially like Frank's answer, which recognizes that it's easy for people here, who don't know you and have no stake in your decision, to give an answer that is the right answer for them but may or may not be the right answer for you.Seems that a key question for you to consider would be: Have you had experience traveling alone, and if so, how did you find it?

Posted by
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Jim, I did it as a 73 year old widow in 2008 to spend 2 weeks in an apartment in Positano. Go for it and have a wonderful time in Italy.

Posted by
1589 posts

Just this guy's opinion- no way without my sweetie at my side.