I wanted to say that I appreciate everyone who helped me plan and gave me advice for traveling and dining in Italy solo. 40 is just around the bend and I hadn't managed to spend more than 24 hours alone in my life! Though the reason I'm rarely alone is because I've been taking care of other people, I was still unsure about that level of solitude, especially as a non neurotypical person. Despite a couple bumps, I feel like I'll be ok traveling alone in the future. Thanks again!
A couple people had asked if I would report back and I posted the Sicily trip report several days ago, but I finally have the Bologna, Parma, Modena and beyond part up. (Warning- it's long!)