A car is desirable for any visit to Tuscany. You should choose a base near some of the places you want to visit. We chose a rural luxury hotel, because we didn't want to deal with city traffic and parking after a day out and about. Note that some of the popular hill towns have long walks from the parking lots, or long waits for a shuttle bus, if you're lucky. You need to do some research, while thinking realistically about how many miles of walking he will have left, after (for example) a steep hill up from the lots in Sam Gimigniano.
Check the climate reports for October. We aren't even "pool people", but we relished a dip in the hotel pool after a sweaty day of touring in July. Usual warnings about IDP, ZTL, Italy insurances. (Search box top center of this page.)
I agree that Siena matches your mention of a "center city", but this is not typical of the hill towns of Tuscany. There's a big spectrum between Siena and Monteriggione. (The latter has limited parking, but October might be OK.) Orvieto is not as big as Siena, but has a lot to do in one place. We tried to do three hill towns a day with a car. We prioritized some luxury winery restaurants for lunch, and had a tiny dinner at the hotel bar, because of gastric reflux at bedtime diagnosis. Had to pay in advance and reserve every winery tour.