Renee, thanks for taking the time to comment, especially during your travels. I currently have tickets in and out of Rome. I know Delta used to fly to Sicily with partner airlines. Now they don't and I assumed it was due to Alitalia. I've been looking at Skyscanner and I know there are many options for getting to Sicily by air, with Ryanair probably being the best for us. It looks like Ryanair actually uses Malta Air for Sicily. I will fly into Palermo or Trapani. Trapani looks cheaper and I think works better for us. I've been reading the RS guide as well as Lonely Planet and Eyewitness travel and of course have searched the Forum for previous posts.
Chani, we've always rented manual cars in Europe. Both my husband and I can drive a manual transmission car. We fly into Rome and overnight there prior to getting to Sicily.
Pat, I'm not sure what you mean by backtracking. We would fly into Trapani (do the day trips), train to Palermo, train to Cefalu, from there continuing clockwise around the island
My husband and I took a RS tour of Rome. Loved it. However, we've done many trips to Europe and traveled independently often renting a car. I did briefly look at the RS Sicily trip, we can do it on our own while covering the island more thoroughly.
I never put my full complete itinerary on this forum for many reasons, that is why I only have a brief outline. It probably looks more complicated because it is just an early draft and we plan lots of day trips especially from Trapani. Maybe I should start a new thread, because I have the air issue resolved though I have not purchased the tickets.
Chani and Pat, thank you so much for the feedback. In putting together what I have so far, I've been looking at Skyscanner and RyanAir websites, Autoeurope and using train and bus websites. I would like to limit car use, because though cheaper than most locations, rentals are still fairly expensive in Sicily. One way rentals are also a problem as far as I can tell. It looks like if I rent out of Cefalu, I cannot return to Trapani or Agrigento.
It looks like most of what I may want to do in Trapani and Palermo is doable with train or bus. Getting to Cefalu by train is quite efficient. Getting from Agrigento to Palermo by train is also quite efficient.
There are places I want to go to that seem to be much easier with a car--Etna wine area, Agrigento, Villa del Casale.
We don't mind 2-3 night stays. We mind day trips with more than about 2 hours of transportation time.
What I'm looking at for order of cities is the following and they may not all be overnight stays and there are day trips planned from some of the locations.
Trapani
Palermo
Cefalu
Milazzo/Lipari
Taormina
Mt Etna wine area
Catonia
Siracusa
Ragusa
Agrigento
Rome from Palermo
We are considering doing Catonia and Taormina day trips from the Etna wine area or Riposto. We will not be doing a lot in Catonia or Taormina though it does look like each place we may want 1 1/2 days, making a day trip from Etna wine country less feasible.
Looking at the map, I could probably rent out of Taormina though return to Agrigento is a problem and the rates seem highest in Taormina.