Thank you in advance for taking time to read my question. My husband and I are celebrating our First Anniversary by traveling to Italy for 11 nights in mid-May (I already subtracted our travel days). We have a general outline but would really value feedback. Some basic info about us might be helpful. We are about 60 y.o., in great health and fitness, seasoned international travelers, especially enjoy history, music, cooking, and learning about local culture and people. Using public transportation is very familiar to us. We want to strike a balance of touring and relaxing. This will be the third time I have visited Italy and my husband's first.
We fly into Florence and depart from Rome. We will spend the first 5 nights/4.5 days touring Florence and the surrounding Tuscany area including Cinque Terre, cooking class/dinner and vinyard tour. Additional options include Assisi, Sienna, etc.. We have reservations at a historical/restored farmhouse about 7 km west of Florence, and we will have a rental car for much of this. What gems do you think we may have overlooked?
Here is my primary question: How should we divide our remaining 6.5 days/6 nights between Rome and surrounding areas? So far we are most interested in Rome (minimum 3 days), Amalfi Coast (probably spend 1 night in Positano), and MAYBE Naples, Pompeii, Capri and ??? Perhaps we can get tickets to an Opera or Symphony Concert in Rome?
FIRST, do you believe it is wise to spend time in Naples during this period, or should we focus on the other places? IF we include Naples, does it make sense to TRAIN directly from Florence to Naples, take day-trip to Capri and possibly Sorrento and Pompeii, and then work our way up the coast to Rome for our final 3 days?
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SECOND, should we TRAIN directly to Rome, spend ~3 days touring Rome and then take a bus or private driver round-trip down the Amalfi Coast possibly stopping in Pompeii. We might spend a night in Positano or similar town. From there we could take a day-trip to Capri and possibly Sorrento and finally end up in Rome to fly out.
In summary, keeping in mind we do want to see the most important historical sites and have time to breathe in local culture, what are your thoughts about places we have included and excluded? What "hidden gems" are we missing? At this point, we are not locked into anything except our flights.
We are very excited for our Italy trip, and in advance are thankful for your replies.