Hello friends! After years and years of wanting desperately to go to Italy, my husband has finally agreed. FULL DISCLOSURE I have never been more intimidated when planning a trip. We are a family of four: Two adults and two kids (ages 12 and 9) Because of the ages of my children and their school Schedules we are limited to traveling only two times during the year: Mid to late July and early August of this year, during their summer break, or right after Christmas and the first week of January (for their winter break). I have watched several 'behind the scenes' vlogger videos showing the reality and chaos of Italy during the high season, and I am terrified about battling the large crowds that seem to take over the Amalfi Coast and the popular sightseeing destinations that we are inevitably targeting on our trip. I am also tasked with figuring out how to come up with an itinerary for a husband who is NOT big on sightseeing (he's visually impaired and gets terrible headaches) and visiting too many tourist attraction and landmarks is not his idea of fun (but he is willing to do it in moderation for us).
He would love to spend a nice chunk of our vacation on a beach, or in front of a pool in the sun, eating and relaxing. He has voiced that his preference is a vacation of relaxation (thus my desire to potentially hit Sorrento with day trips into Positano or Capri). But none of that will be relaxing if it's over run with crowds. In contrast I have a 12 year old son who wants to see ALL the amazing historical locations and desperately wants to hit Rome and Venice. so here are my questions:
If we can feasibly do 14 days (give or take a day or three) what would be an ideal itinerary?
Given our schedule and travel restrictions would this summer (mid July- early august be better) because of the weather, or would waiting until late December when it will be less crowded (but also inevitably not as good weather) be a better option?
Also, we definitely don't want to rush and would like to take our time so we can enjoy everything. Dividing our time so that we feel like we truly got to experience each destination rather than try and tackle too much at once. A great balance or sightseeing, food, and relaxation would be ideal. To satisfy my whole family's wants I was thinking of something like the following (in no particular order)...
ROME. 3-4 FULL NIGHTS. With at least 3 whole days to explore before leaving. Priorities would be to target: Colloseum and Pantheon, The Vatican, annd Sistine Chapel. I have seen the unbelievably insane crowds. Will purchasing front of the line tours and tickets in any way shield us from the crowds of high season?
FLORENCE - 3 FULL NIGHTS
VENICE - 3 FULL NIGHTS
SORRENTO (so that we can explore Amalfi coast, Positano, Capri) 4-5 FULL NIGHTS (again, I know that these areas can be a zoo during high season, so any advice regarding how to navigate and AVOID the general population of huge crowds. We are not above hiring private transportation. Any sort of less crowded boating day tours to avoid having to take that extremely crowded Ferry boat ride, etc.). I would imagine staying in one location in Sorrento and then going into Amalfi or Positano for day trips may be easier with a family and all our luggage. Also how does one travel with so much luggage if we have to do trains?
Oh! We'd also LOVE to see Pompeii and Herculaneum but I've read that visiting these places in July is torture in the heat and to avoid at all costs. Also any advice for relaxing day trips to Tuscany but again, I am completely in over my head with this trip and have no idea what's the best way to tackle this vacation. Any and ALL extremely detailed help from luggage to trains to private transportation would be AMAZING.