I'm just starting to think about Italy for next year. At the end of the trip, I'm aiming for 7 nights in Sicily (flying from Rome). I've been to Italy but not Sicily. My broad plan is 3-4 nights on the east side of the island, seeing Etna, Syracuse, and other towns on that side. I'd assume I'd fly into Catania. Then the remaining 3-4 nights on the other side, seeing Palermo and Segesta, flying home from Palermo. I'd have a car for most of this. As I said, it's broad strokes right now. I will be with husband and kids (elementary school age boys).
My question now is around Palermo. There is a lot I want to see in the city (Norman Palace, several churches, Monreale, markets), but I'm not sure I want to stay in the city. I will have a car, which I assume I will park somewhere on the outskirts, because if Palermo is anything like Rome or Naples, I have no interest in driving in it. What I'm looking for is:
-possibly a nice town to stay in with easy access to Palermo. I would also like to take a half-day to Segesta from there (driving).
-OR thoughts on staying in Palermo itself. I could stay in the city for 2 nights right before leaving. I like cities, and in some ways like the idea of being immersed in the atmosphere, plus I've always found that staying in town gives you experiences like early morning markets, later evening strolls, sunrise, sunset...that I tend to miss on day trips. But I've heard it's kind of intense and so am not sure. Would anyone advise this, and if so I'd love suggestions for neighborhoods.
THANKS!