I can't thank you all enough for your care in helping me, and others that will read this.
We are not planning to spend time in Paris this trip.
We check out of our Rome flat on the 1st.
I check into my Amboises, France (Loire Valley) flat on the 2nd. My son will be staying at Solesmes and Fontgombault.
So theoretically we could take the train to Milan early on the 1st, and then travel to France later in the day on the 1st or stay in Milan on the 1st and travel on the 2nd.
We have not made travel arrangements yet from Italy to France.
I looked into to flying from Milan to Tours (and get a rental car in Tours) but it seems that I can't find flights to Tours from Milan. So will either have to fly to Paris and then take a train to Tours or train from Milan. A nice overnight sleeper would be okay, but it appears a few train changes are needed.
My first time doing this, so apologies for ignorance.
Best,