My 20yo daughter is spending the upcoming fall semester studying in Rome, so my husband and I are planning to visit Italy at the end of September. Our first week, he and I will be doing a bike tour in Tuscany (this is already booked), we will be done with the tour and depart a small town in Tuscany on Friday morning. We are hoping to then go for a long weekend somewhere with our daughter, she will need to be back in Rome for class on Monday morning (and we will spend the last part of our vacation in Rome). She loves the idea of the "Amalfi Coast," which looks amazing, but I'm wondering if the crowds will just make it unappealing for a weekend. I currently have a (refundable) place booked in Atrani (next to Amalfi, which I read was more peaceful), but I'm second guessing this. Looking at Ischia a bit and wondering if this is a better option. Less crowded perhaps and still beautiful coastline and cultural gems to explore.
So, looking for a beautiful place to spend a weekend that is within a reasonable distance from Tuscany/Rome. I would say I want a "relaxing" weekend with my daughter, but our idea of relaxing is not sitting around or laying on a beach. We would prefer a cute town/cultural area to explore or a good hike or even a boat tour, ending the day at cafe with good food and wine and good views. I realize we don't have a lot of time, so I don't want to waste it fighting crowds.
As for transportation, we will likely end up renting a car, but are open to other options. Where we are staying in Tuscany is very small and renting a car makes the most sense. So we can drive from Tuscany on Friday morning and meet our daughter somewhere (random train station outside of Rome?) or return the car to Rome and train/ferry from there (but also keeping in mind the time factor). When looking at Amalfi/Atrani it seemed like keeping the car might be easier so we wouldn't waste time with so many train/ferry connections. If we choose Ischia, can you bring the car on the ferry? Is it worth it?
Also open to other suggestions of locations for our weekend adventure. TIA for any feedback/suggestions!