Sorry for the delay - I lost track of things! I'm not sure if I should start a new post, but I'll try asking my new questions here (some comments to my original post are after these new questions):
1) FERRIES: How early do we need to arrive for a Lake Garda ferry, eg Limone to Riva? Do the last ferries of the day ever fill up? Can you see scenery from the fast ferries? I ask this because in Greece the windows of our fast ferry were covered in water so we couldn't see out (& no decks)
2) MONTE BALDO: If we get to the Monte Baldo cable car in Malcesine by 10am in mid September, would there be more than an hour wait for a car to the top? (I'll buy tickets online the day before)
My Comments on your very thoughtful suggestions:
Yes, we have driven in Italy before so know about the IDP, ZTLs etc.
I'm not worried about driving after an overnight flight. Unlike myself, my husband can sleep on flights so he's usually fine driving! But with your input, I have decided not to do a quick stop at Verona on our way to Lake Garda. That's probably pushing it for our arrival day. We'll have 2 cars, so anyone wanting to stop can be in the other car.
As for Malcesine vs Gargnano. I'm STILL torn. Someone said go with the hotel we like - & I do like our Gargnano hotel. But, being based in Malcesine gives us more time to explore the town. If we stay in Gargnano, the day trip to Malcesine/Monte Baldo is a bit tight with the ferry schedule. I don't want to feel rushed. Nor do I want to play tour director with my friends and have to keep herding them along! (Even taking the first ferry from Limone to Malcesine & allowing 1 hour to wait for cable cars, 3 hours at the top of Monte Baldo = that only leaves 1-2 hours to see Malcesine. hmmm)
Since we like smaller, low-key towns, I'm wondering if I should stick with Gargnano.
William from MIlwaukee - Google ZTLs and you'll find lots of info on these zones you should avoid. I usually identify the Parking outside of the ZTL area before I go, and enter those addreses/GPS coordinates into my GPS. Much less stressful.
Thanks everyone!