Hello Travelers: I am trying to plan an milestone anniversary trip for me and my spouse. We're in our early 40s. Hoping for a 2025 Spring departure, avoiding Easter. Our honeymoon was Paris, Loire, Barcelona. My spouse loved Paris and the Loire, and was so-so on Barcelona (the food and people were a hit, the sights and the "vibe" less so). Prior to marriage, I lived in Rome a little over 1/2 a year. He'd like to see Rome & il Vaticano, and who am I to deny my love his heart's desire? After that, the themes of the trip are (1) Romance, (2) Food, (3) a relaxed and "classy" feel, BONUS IF POSSIBLE (4) road trip options, (5) castle/palace/homes of the ye olde rich and famous open to the public, and (6) not a beach or seaside resort town (we live in a touristic seaside town, he shuns beaches, & he does not like boat rides on the sea - lakes & rivers are tolerable). Here are some questions:
(A) to your minds, are there destinations in Italy (or further a field in Europe) that have a similar polished or classy or relaxed "vibe" to Paris and the Pays de Loire that we should check out? I can't think of any in Italy that are 1:1 - maybe Lake Como (but I've never been)? maybe Bologna (I liked it, it is not frenetic, the food is good and its easy to do fun day trips)? Please don't say Florence/Tuscany.... I've seen Rome and Tuscany, I don't want to repeat both. Possibly there are some spots in France that might fit the "vibe," too (Lyon, Annecy)? I considered Bordeaux, but the nearby beach attractions gave me pause. What say you?
(B) What do you think of these possible itineraries:
OPTION 1 - ROME-LYON-ANNECY
TOTAL - 9-10 nights
FLY Boston > Rome
See: Ancient Rome, the Vatican, Baroque Rome, maybe a day trip to Ostia Antica or a slightly calmer destination outside the city
(maybe 5 nights?)
FLY Rome> Lyon (1.5 hour flight possible)
See Lyon, eat at the fancy foodie spots, do a day trip or overnight to Annecy (2 hours from Lyon, my top pick) or Aix les bains (1.5 hr), or Grenoble (1.5 )
(maybe 4-5 nights?)
FLY HOME from Lyon or Geneva to Boston
OPTION 2 ROME-ANNECY
TOTAL - 9 nights
FLY Boston > Rome
See: Ancient Rome, the Vatican, Baroque Rome, maybe a day trip to Ostia Antica or elsewhere
(maybe 5 nights?)
FLY Rome> Geneva (1.5 hr flight possible)
Skip Geneva, go straight to Annecy (1 hour by car from Geneva)
(2 nights Annecy)
Drive to Aix les bains
(2 nights there)
FLY HOME Geneva to Boston
OPTION 3 ROME-BOLOGNA- ANNECY (this might be my favorite oNE?)
TOTAL - 9 nights
FLY Boston > Rome
See: Ancient Rome & the Vatican
(3 nights)
FLY/TRAIN/CAR Rome to Bologna (1 hr by air or about 3 by train/car)
See: Bologna, maybe a day trip outside the city
(3 nights)
FLY Bologna> Geneva (3 hr flight possible))
Skip Geneva, go straight to Annecy (1 hour by car from Geneva)
See: Annecy, maybe a day trip to Aix Les Bains if we feel like it, but mostly, just relax before going home.
(3 nights)
FLY HOME Geneva to Boston
OPTION 4 ROME-BOLOGNA-LAKE COMO- MILAN
TOTAL: 10 nights
FLY Boston
FLY Boston > Rome
See: Ancient Rome & the Vatican
(3 nights)
FLY/TRAIN Rome to Bologna
(3 nights)
TRAIN/DRIVE Bologna to Bellagio/Varrena/Lake Como (2.5 by train, or 3 hours by car)
(3 nights)
TRAIN/DRIVE Como to Milan (2 hr train, 3 hr drive)
(1 night)
FLY HOME Milan > Boston
OPTION 5 - ROME-BOLOGNA (maybe VENICE, as a daytrip)
TOTAL: eight nights
FLY Boston > Rome
See: Ancient Rome & the Vatican
(3 nights)
FLY/TRAIN Rome to Bologna
Daytrips: Whatever we want to see that's nearby, including maybe Venice, if it does not rain or flood and we feel like it
(5 nights)
FLY HOME from Bologna by way of whatever connecting flights get near Boston
OPTION 6
... what did I miss?
THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND AND WISE INPUT, TRAVELERS! :)