If you've just got used to SBB, Italian railways may be a bit different. SBB (and DB in Germany) publish platform numbers in the timetables, up to a year in advance. Sometimes trains change platforms at short notice, but it is rare.
In most of the rest of Europe, including Italy, they don't publish platform information in advance. It only appears on the departure boards about 15-20 minutes before departure. That is why you will see lots of people waiting under the departure board, waiting for the platform numbers to be posted.
If Italian your tickets already have a date, time, train number and seat numbers on them, they are only valid on that train and do not need "validating". This is for long distance and high speed trains. For local trains (Regionalle), tickets are valid on any train (like in Switzerland), but, unlike Switzerland, you have to time-stamp the tickets (the "validating") to stop you using them twice. Look for a little machine with a slot to put your ticket into.