Hello all. I know this question is asked repeatedly - and travel is so individual, so there are a ton of variables - but will ask for your insights anyway! We have been to Europe a few times to various places, but we're finally getting to take a bucket-list trip to Italy in April 2023.
Still working out exactly how long we can be there, but my plan for now is 28 days. It was super hard to whittle down - I guess 3 months wouldn't really be enough to see everything I'd like to see in Italy! so we had to narrow down to most important. It's hard to know exactly what we will love or be meh about until we get there, so we are making our best guess. And even though we wanted to see Lake Como and the mountains, and the south of Italy, those will have to wait for another trip. We like to travel somewhat slowly - I like to wander and be able to absorb as possible - we don't like to be on the run all the time.
I've read Frances Mayes' books for 2 decades and Tuscany is a priority - I just hope that I love it and don't think, what's the big deal and why did we spend so much time here? But so are Venice, and Rome, and I would love to see the Amalfi coast, although that may have to get cut on this trip. It could be too much hopping or just make the trip a little too long. I'm not sure what's overload, although our last European trip was about 23 days and involved 4 locations. We only gave ourselves a couple days 'off' on that one, so I have a few of those built in to this trip to keep my sanity.
4/10 arrive in Rome, rent car, drive to Tuscan coast - Porto Ercole or Porto Santo Stefano (I know that's an odd thing on first trip, but I don't want to skip it. I am a coast and ocean lover and an artist so it appeals to me.) Spend 2 nights there.
4/12 drive to Selvatelle, Tuscany - staying in villa there for a week - will do Florence, Volterra, Chianti, etc from there
4/19 drive to Venice - stay 5 nights in Venice, leaving car at car park - (or should we drop the car and rent another one after Venice?)
4/24 - 4/29 - drive to Eastern Tuscany; stay 5 nights in possibly Cortona (this isn't definite yet, but we want to see the Eastern side of Tuscany/ some of Umbria and actually stay in a hill town, and it's too long of a drive to squeeze it all in from outside of Pisa)
4/29-5/2 - possibly Positano for 3 nights? This is a big question mark. My husband thinks we should scrap these few days because it's out of the way compared to Rome. As much as I would LOVE to see the Amalfi Coast and Pompeii, maybe 3 nights aren't enough to do it justice.
5/2-5/9 or 4/29 -5/5 - Rome (drop rental car off when we get to Rome of course)
Would especially like opinions on length of time needed for Amalfi area, whether we have too many nights in Rome for a first trip, etc. (I have "rest days" built in to the schedule in Selvatelle, Venice and Cortona just fyi)