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First Italy Trip Itinerary Help

We are in the process of planning a trip to Italy (my husband and I's first time to Italy!) and we'd like some advice about our itinerary. Our plan is Venice, Florence and Rome in about 8.5 days realistically with our air travel. It will be late May of this year.

Here's a quick rundown of our goals and current expectations:
We are going to have some romantic, alone time exploring a new country after having our first child.
We are okay being busy and sightseeing, we're active people, but we don't want to feel over the top rushed ...
We have been told that more time could be devoted to Florence, and definitely Rome, but we wanted to at least see the "bigger 3" on our first trip since we aren't sure when or if we'll be back. And this is all the time we could get away for so we're making due with what we have.

Our original itinerary was 2 days in Venice, 4 in Florence (with the idea that we'd spend 2 of those days doing day trips outside of Florence) and 2.5 in Rome. After asking people who have gone to Italy and reading some other forums, we aren't so sure anymore.

We are wondering if we should:
-Drop a day from Florence and add a day to Rome. So 3 days in Florence, 3 days in Rome. If we see what we want in 2 days in Florence, maybe we'll do a day to Lucca or Siena. Keeping it mostly touristy and sightseeing. But allowing more time to see the sights.
-Keep Rome at a busy and well planned out 2 days, and spend a solid 2 days somewhere in the surrounding countryside or oceanside near Florence. Possibly allowing us to build in some beach/pool time or lazy winery hours. But making Rome (and Florence) busy and packed tight.
-(if we did option 2, then our question is Cinque Terre for beaches and hiking or wineries and small towns in Tuscany. We know that Cinque Terre is very crowded and touristy, we're okay with that, we love to hike. But we also love the idea of renting a car and exploring the smaller towns and estates in the country and staying at a B&B).

Now - I fully understand that these questions are completely subjective and that ultimately we should choose what we feel we'd like best. However, I just wanted to throw the questions out there to people who have been to these places before to hear what advice or opinions they may have in case anything sparks something for us.

Thank you!!

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You should count night on the ground, not days.

Two nights Venezia, three night each Firenze and Roma.

If you feel like you have time for daytrips, Siena would be a good one from Firenze.

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Kboockford,
Funny cuz we too are in Italy end of April first of May. I think its a great time cuz tourist season is just starting and temps/crowds will good.

Maybe this is too close to your trip to change anything but I think your adjusted schedule is good. Rome can be as much as you want it to be. The main attractions in 2 days easily but if you want to see more churches and experience the side streets of Rome then give yourself 3. We are big hikers and love to walk. I feel its the best way to soak it all up. Get a ROMA pass for the Forum and Colosseum for sure and if there on a Fri go online and reserve a night tour of the Vatican. http://www.museivaticani.va/content/museivaticani/en.html#lnav_explore.
This is the #1 way to see the Vatican!!!......believe me. My only other comment is this: Get to the Mediterranean!!! Italy is Amazing for sure. But the Med, OMG. Cinque Terre for our last 3 days to hike, ferry ride, kyak and relax. Beach wise Monterosso al Mare is the most northern and has the largest beach. Tourist by day but the nights are perfect.

Question is: how are you staying? hotels, VRBO'S? I know of a Castle in Sienna to stay in if you end up in Tuscany that is amaze....
Good luck you two.
I spent a lot of time there while in the NAVY and taking my girlfriend for her first time. Relax, enjoy the culture and the night time with the locals!!!!!!

Ciao for now.

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Kboockford...please share information on castle stay in Tuscany. We are starting to plan our trip for July of 2018. Thank you!!

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Castello Delle Quatro. Book the tower room!!!! They offer cooking classes and you eat all the food you make as your meal. Lunch or dinner. Heather will help you. She is Fabolous

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Personally I think Cinque Terre is out of your way and would take too long for the short time you have. If you want to experience a nice beach, take the train from Rome to Tarquinia (about 1.5 hours each way). You can visit the Etruscan tombs and other archaeological sights as well as enjoying a nice beach that's much less polluted than the ones nearer to Rome.

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Enjoy your trip whatever you end up doing! It will be hot, less than 9 days is not a lot of time...you don't say where you are flying into/out of but generally speaking 2 nights Venice, 2 Florence, 2 in Rome ( see last if flying out from here). If you like big cities or plan on going to the Vatican stay 3 nights in Rome, if you want the Tuscan charm add a night in Florence and day trip somewhere.. More that 3 hotels in 8 days is a lot of moving around and not a lot of relaxing...which is really what Italy is all about! ;) Have fun!

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It's harder to talk in days than nights. How many nights will you be sleeping there? If 8 nights, I'd do 2 of Venice and 3 each Florence and Rome. If it's 9 nights, then 3 of each.

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I'll agree that It's harder to talk in days than nights. If 8 nights, I'd go along with 2 in Venice (this only allows you one full day for sightseeing) + 3 each Florence and Rome, and 3 in each if you have 9.

Keep in mind that you'll lose 1/2 day in the transfer process every time you make a move so you'd end up - at best, with 9 nights - with 2.5 days in Venice, 2.5 in Florence and 2.5 in Rome. This really doesn't allow any extra for day trips with the exception, maybe, of a one-dayer in Florence (and I wouldn't personally choose the CT; not "relaxing" as a day trip) but we found plenty to do there over our 5 nights without ever leaving the city.

I'll be the dissenter on the Roma Pass depending on what you what to see in Rome, It's not a good buy JUST for the colosseum/forum/palatine, and does not cover the Vatican.

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Thank you all for your opinions and advice! For those who have asked, it's 9 nights.

After some more research and after everyone's thoughtful input, we've decided to limit this trip to just 3 cities with the time we have. It definitely makes the most sense and we think it'll make the trip feel less rushed.

One final questions however ... someone close to us has recommended skipping Florence and instead spending those days in CT or Tuscan wine country to switch up our time. Granted they were quite underwhelmed by Florence on their trip, it wasn't really their thing, but that is their single experience. Their thought is we'd get enough sightseeing/history time in Venice and Rome, especially, and that it'd be more enjoyable to do something different from that.

Now I understand everyone is different and Florence so far (in what we've heard or read) seems to be a very "love it or leave it" city but I can't see myself completely ignoring it on a first trip to Italy. But again, I've never been and I have no idea how I'd feel about the city. Can others who have gone before please advise? Again I know this is our trip and we need to do what we want, but we appreciate considering the thoughts and advice of those who have been there.

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I think it really boils down to what you're interested in. If there are sights that you want to see in Florence, by all means, keep your nights in Florence. Perhaps one of your days there you could schedule a winery visit to the Tuscan countryside. There seem to be a lot of companies that offer those types of tours and it would give you a chance to get a taste of something different.

Florence is a wonderful city that I really enjoyed when I took my first trip to Italy in college. That being said, two trips later with my husband, we haven't made it there yet. We go by RS advice and travel like we know we will go back. I'm hoping that on our third trip we will! I'd love to go back. It's all about picking your personal priorities and structuring a trip that makes sense for you. Our second trip is quickly coming up - while planning it I realized we didn't have the time to allocate to Florence that I wanted to give it AND accomplish seeing the Tuscan countryside so we've omitted it this trip and hope to catch it on a future trip.

You can't go wrong with whatever you decide. :)

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Another lover of Florence here but as Julie said, it comes down to what YOU are interested in? Firenze and Roma and Venezia are all very different cities with their own long and important histories so it's not like if you've seen one, you've seen Italy. As the birthplace of the Italian Renaissance, Florence is a goldmine of art and architecture, which was great for me but may not be YOUR thing?

We've also done 3 nights the CT - towards the end of May, as a matter of fact - and enjoyed it very much although it is really busy. There are ways around that with some footwork up onto the higher, less traveled trails - the 2 open segments of the renowned Blue Trail will be a conga line - but the little villages themselves promise to be pretty crowded during the day, Still, the best way to do that one is to stay versus do it as a day trip so you can enjoy the early morning and evening hours before and after the day-trippers arrive/depart.

One thing to consider is weather? Chances are it'll be nice but the CT isn't much fun in the rain whereas Florence offers more things to see inside if it's wet outside.

There's no right or wrong answer; it's all about what is the best for you. :O)

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It truly is impossible to make the "how long to stay" decisions when you haven't been !!

IF you had an extra day in Florence, you can train to Lucca, Bologna, or Siena, take a wine tour of Tuscany, or enjoy a cooking class.
Or, train into Orvieto for a stop on your way into Rome. This way you get the village feel.

We have visited Florence and Rome half a dozen times and STILL have a list of things to visit in each !

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Since I am not a big fan of Rome, one day Vatican city one day Old Rome was enough for me, but Florence and the area around it I love especially Lucca. Venice we also did with 2 nights as it was just enough time to see all we needed to see and be done with it. I love Tuscany and the Dolomites and the Lake Como area. Cinque Terre is so over crowded now, we went in 2001 and again in 2005 and just the few years in between saw such an upside in the number of tourists I hate to think what it is like now. It also depends on how much time you want to spend in museums, if going to the Uffizi, Academia, Vatican then get tickets ahead of time or as we do book a tour so someone explains what you are looking at and you don't waste time. We love renting a car and getting lost in Tuscany as we did many times before GPS as found some very interesting small towns. Remember when driving in Tuscany, there are no super highways to get to small towns just one way switch back roads that will take time to get from one place to another.

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My husband and I are also going to Italy for the first time in May. We struggled with all the same planning thoughts you are having. We started with an itinerary similar to yours but ended up extending our vacation to 11 nights. I also read and heard you need at least 4 nights in Rome. Rome is very important for us during our first trip...there is just so much to do and see. There is also several great day trips from Rome. We are spending 5 nights in Rome and 5 off the Amalfi coast and our last night in Naples. When you think about your trip just think about what is the most important thing for you! No matter what you will have an amazing time. Do whatever is best for you!