We're heading to Italy in April of 2023 and plan to visit Venice and the Emilia-Romagna region (cities/towns TBD), and possibly ending up in Zurich to fly home from there. We're not religious and don't particularly have any vested interest in "experiencing" Easter in any city, and we definitely won't be going to mass. We're flying into MXP on April 5th (the Wednesday before Easter) and the rest is unplanned, other than currently un-purchased return tickets, either Friday the 14th or Saturday the 15th. I was thinking of taking the train from Milan to Venice on the 6th and then leaving Venice on the 9th, which is Easter Sunday. Or, would we be better off being in the Emilia-Romagna region then, and going to Venice afterwards? I'm thinking in terms of crowds, experiences, and availability of places to eat and visit.
(If it's relevant -- this trip is me and my husband and our two teenage daughters. We've been to Italy before, but never north of Florence, other than a trip I took as a child almost 40 years ago. Also - this is a special trip to celebrate my oldest's high school graduation and she requested "a trip with really good food.")