Attempting to "speak" the language was incredibly
satisfying and fun! - at least on our part, can't
speak for the Italians hearing us. I came down
with a bad cold the night we left for Italy, so
our first Italian "dialogue" came in the first
farmecia we could find. Our 2nd night I garnered
the nerve to "do" our entire espresso transaction
in Italian. Because I drew a BLANK when the gal
answered back with the price, I was able to glance
quickly at the readout on the cash register and
was saved....Seems like either you're answered
back in high velocity, animated conversation OR
they hear your "American" and answer back in
English. I'd been so proud of asking in a fancy
restaurant where the "toilette" was, all in Italian,
that I was disappointed when she answered,
"around the corner and down the stairs." I did
realize, I never would have understood her tho',
had she answered in her native tongue :-) Our B&B host in Rome
had limited English, but we learned so much still communicating with one another.
When I was in Italy, I also tried me hand at a little Italian. Most of the time, I got a reply in English. I believe it to be a courtesy on the part of the Italians - their English being much better than my Italian. I am sure they all did appreciate my effort- and your as well. I just love getting lost in places in a foriegn language - it adds to the adventure and romance.
I studied languages in college and what happens is that native speakers know that you are using phrases that you memorized from a phrase book. It's much easier for them to answer you in English (if they speak it) than it would be to try to explain in Italian. But, keep speaking in Italian as they do appreciate it even if their response is in English (they want you to know that they can speak English too)!!!!!
Yes, that's a great perspective - I'd never really thought about it that way. One, them "showing" us they can speak English, but also them recognizing our "memorized" phrases. Thanks....