The ATM is great for walking around money, but not so great for paying monthly rent, utilities, etc.
Pay Pal takes a percentage of any transaction and the exchange rate is not great.
My initial transfer was through BoA when the Euro was at 1.08 to the Dollar. BoA gave me an exchange rate of 1.24. Pretty hefty profit for them. Plus a $45 transfer fee.
I have used TravelWise.com twice now to pay deposit and two months rent (and yes, separated into transactions under $3,000 each which is a real pain, but trying to do a really large transfer gets into a whole lot of red tape). It still takes 5 business days (Italy does not seem to honor giving funds to the recipient upon receipt, and if you use a debit card in the states to transfer the money, it takes an additional 5 business days).
HSBC requires a hefty minimum balance for their "hassle free" banking ($100,000). However, they honor the no transaction fee for ATM withdrawals, excellent exchange rate, and both checks, a Debit and a Credit card which can be tied for "points." This is probably the best option for me personally -- I was just hoping to find someone who has "been there and done that".
Since I'm not staying in hotels very often, the need to be able to pay directly for apartments and private homes is important. The times that I'm staying in hotels, the exchange rate offered by American Express on each transaction (no transaction fee) is outstanding. Same for meals, trains, and consumer goods purchased where credit cards are accepted.
So if anyone has "been there and done that" I would sure appreciate hearing from you.
I've yet to find any sort of travel guide for people going on long term stays in the Schengen countries.
Thanks!
Catherine