Does anyone have more insight. Is $8000 per person reasonable?
I looked at some of your earlier posts. It's not like you haven't traveled in Europe and should have some idea of what would be reasonable, therefore I'm confused about the purpose of this post.
I don't think you're paying for your friend's son to take the trip. It seems it is already booked, so I don't see you telling your friend "don't do it". I can't see this as a warning to us here at RS because it is highly doubtful anyone here will be booking it for their child, especially since we don't know what school, etc. What purpose does sharing this at RS serve?
[Edit] OK, I'll play.
My wife is the Director of the School of Nursing at a university. Every year she takes a group of students on a medical mission trip. They normally go either to Honduras or Tanzania for two weeks. All in cost for the Tanzania trip is less than $4,000 for the student and it counts as one of their courses. Then Honduras trip is even less, somewhere between $2,000 and $2,500. I'm sure accommodations aren't quite as posh as in Italy.
We did a scouting trip for a Studies Abroad program in London and Paris. We were gone 10 days and spent less than $4,000 for the two of us. When we went to Tuscany on a 10 day trip, we spent around $3,500, but we had Skymiles to help with airfare.
Is this a college or a high school? As a point of comparison, the University of Georgia offers a 7 week program in Cortona in the summer. It includes breakfast and dinner 5 nights a week. Students share a room and you get 12 hours college credit. There are field trips to Naples, Rome, Sieana, Arezzo, Florence and Venice. The cost for 7 weeks, excluding airfare, is $7,000.