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50 th wedding anniversary in Italy with adult children (total 5 adults)

We’ve been to Rome, Florence ,Umbria, Tuscany, Venice, Dolomites, Lakes, Amalfi coast. Happy to return to any (or perhaps Puglia)but concerned about crowds.
Open to any month May-November 0f 2027. Anniversary is July 9 but thinking too hot and busy then. Trip length 10 days. Would like to base in one place, perhaps 2.
Probably our last visit to Italy.I’ll be 80–and we’re both mobile- although not able to hike the Dolomites like we did 20 years ago.
Will a car for 5 adults + luggage be a problem?
We’re not foodies , don’t need anything extravagant. Enjoy beautiful scenery, small villages, piazzas, wine, relaxed pace. Florence, Venice and Rome are favorites but fear the crowds. Lucca?
Ideas?

Thanks in advance.
Nancy

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You’ve been to so many places in the north of italy, so unless you’re looking for a repeats, head south. Naples is the big city, with piazzas galore and other attractions, but “relaxing” isn’t how I’d describe it. Did you see Naples, Pompeii, and/or Herculaneum during your trip at the Amati Coast?

Last November, we had 12 days total, starting in Naples (that’s where we flew roundtrip in/out), but then rented a car and drove to/around Puglia, eventually turning in the car and taking a train back to Naples. There were two of us, and we rented a “mini” sized car, but were given a Ford Puma SUV. Five of you, plus luggage, would likely want at least a minivan, but there were lots of those at the rental lots.

Weather was quite nice, except for three days when it rained, and one of those, in Lecce (I’ve corrected my original spelling), it absolutely poured. In Puglia, we stayed first in Altamura (the City of Bread), then Lecce, then Martina Franca. Martina Franca, with its old town as well as a more modern part, was my favorite, but Lecce’s a bigger city, with more lodging options and sights. Our final night was in big Bari, after returning the car and from where we caught the train back to Naples. Scenery and outstanding small villages were abundant, and they’re proud of their local wines. Primitivo red was my favorite.

We’re going back to Puglia this coming November for more! My sense is it’s currently a much less-crowded part of Italy compared to Florence, Venice, and Rome (and until it gets more discovered), and that the tourists are mostly other Italians, not the International crowd.

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ChristineH is right, and I’ve corrected my original typos above to “Lecce,” in Puglia.

Having said that, Lucca is a delightful small city in western Tuscany, set inside interesting, wide Renaissance town walls with paths atop where you can walk or bike. If you wind up choosing considerably farther north than Puglia, and haven’t been there previously, Lecce would be fun. It does get crowded, though, on Friday nights and weekends. We stayed for three nights on an earlier trip; if you stayed there, you’d probably want to also pick a second base for some of your 10 days.

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You mention driving but have not settled on a location yet. For five plus luggage, you would need a pretty large vehicle. It would only be useful for a tour of small villages and countryside. So do you envision that or cities?
Month and location have to be in alignment, as there are many places I’d go in May but not November and vice versatility.
So, keep perusing books and thinking about what exactly you want, once you know that, we can help crowdsource perfect location.

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5 people + all of your luggage means a bigger vehicle. A bigger vehicle will be really costly, plus is more stressful to drive and park in Italy. So my advice is to plan your trip around public transit.

Since you have flexibility, take advantage. October and November are awesome for travel. The slight tradeoff of a few places being closed is balanced by the lack of crowds and soft prices. It's a true shoulder/slack time; like September was 20 years ago.

It's smart to limit yourselves to 1 or 2 bases. Less is more.

I do like the suggestion of Sicily, but that just might be my recency bias talking. Lucca is great and you're well connected to Florence

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Thanks to everyone who has responded. After talking things over with my family, we’re thinking it would be best to actually celebrate this anniversary in Italy which means July 9, 2027.

I’m now focusing on the area around Lucca—Gargagnana and Lunigiana regions or Casentino Valley. It should be a bit cooler there in July as opposed to further south and less crowded.

There seem to be resorts/hotels or villas to rent in these areas. We would be ok driving our larger vehicle in the smaller villages and taking a train to larger cities—basically Lucca or Pisa. Think we’ll just have to skip Florence in summer.

Comments?

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Barga has easy access to Lucca and I loved my visit there, sounds like a good choice to focus on that region’s smaller towns in July!

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No idea what the Lunigiana is like crowdwise in July, but we absolutely loved staying in Pontremoli 4 years ago in September. The stele museum in town is one of my favorite museums in Italy. Many places within driving distance. Check on the usual weather in July --- a quick google tells me early July is a great time to be there. There surely won't be the crowds you'd find in the more popular Tuscan towns and cities.

Thoroughly recommend where we stayed --- https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/595278030307850587?guests=1&adults=1&s=67&unique_share_id=efdffc3d-69b7-4fbc-bb5d-6de50cb7af1d

Other Lunigiana information we used:

https://italysegreta.com/lunigiana/

https://www.apathtolunch.com/2014/05/exploring-pontremoli-ten-things-to-do.html

https://www.terredilunigiana.com/pontremoli.php

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If I were you, I would be looking at Agriturismos with pools in Tuscany.