I know, it's a big undertaking but the kids are all 9-19 and experienced travelers. We start with 3 nights in Rome and end with 2 nights in Venice. Hotels are booked and transportation arranged. We will see Pompeii during the first 4 days and will also tour the Vatican Museum/Sistine Chapel.
In between we will stay at a farmhouse near Lucca and have a LONG list of ideas for day trips. I know we can't do it all (list spans from "relaxation day" to day trip to Nice/Monte Carlo and everything between the two extremes. I have looked at maps and drive times vs train (we will have cars for the time near Lucca). With our large group cost is a factor and enjoyable learning is a priority.
To help select our day trips ~ I would appreciate guidance as it pertains to traveling with kids. We already have selected Florence (2), Lucca/Pisa (2), Cinque Terra (1), San Marino/Ravenna (1). This leaves 7 days open and unscheduled. I am wary of planning too much but am on the fence as to how to plan them: Is this already too aggressive? Should we spend more time in the Lucca area? What other stops should we include if any?
Greatly appreciate any and all input!!