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12 days in Italy w/ teens - itinerary suggestions

Hello,
We are planning a 12 day trip to Italy mid-late October. My husband and I have been before with stays in Venice, Florence and Rome. This is our first time to Italy (and Europe) with our 11 and 13 yos so we are open to repeating some of the places we have visited but would like to also visit a new area. Fingers crossed that crowds are light. I've been in the summer and it was overwhelming. We've been in November and it was magic.

-Kids have expressed a strong interest in seeing Venice and Rome, as well as Pompeii. And eating all the food. :)
-Right now we plan to fly into Venice and out of Rome or vice versa
-Not planning on renting a car. Relying on train and public transport
-We are inclined to eliminate Florence as our 11 yo son as a very low tolerance/interest for touring museums. However, sites like the Colosseum and the Forum are of interest to him.
-The family loves being near water; off the beaten path exploration; outdoor activities. So building in a few days for some non-city exploration / outdoor / cooking class activities is ideal. And this is where I am in need of some advice.

So far:
3-4 nights Rome
3 nights Amafli (Pompeii on the way to /from Rome?)
2 nights in a Tuscan town accessible by train on the way to Venice (which one??)
3 nights Venice

The Amalfi Coast is appealing to us as we haven't been south of Rome. It checks off Pompeii and seeing the Italian coast. How/when you would incorporate this into a 12 day itinerary that includes Rome and Venice? Where would you recommend staying in the Amalfi area? And which places to visit via ferry or bus?

We are open to alternatives to Amalfi to build out our trip. A stay in Tuscany sounds appealing too but perhaps not as ideal since we won't have a car. Does a stop over there create too busy of a schedule?

Looking forward to your feedback and advice!

Posted by
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Looks like you have 11 NIGHTS? Is that correct?

It's easier to fly IN to Venice than out of- so if you can start there.

Venice 3 nights
Train to Orvieto- 2 nights- not Tuscany but an Umbrian hill town about an hour from Rome- on the train line. Kids should enjoy the underground activities there.

Train to Sorrento-3 nights (to Naples then local train) I'd just stay in Sorrento- it takes so long to get here and even longer and more hassle to get to an Amalfi coast town. Easy to day trip to Pompeii, Capri, Naples, etc.
If you are coming from Orvieto- don't try to see Pompeii on the way- maybe on your way back to Rome instead. You can tour the coast on your own with bus and ferry (if still running) or check Mondo Guides-- www.sharedtours.com

Train to Rome 3 nights
Fly out of Rome

If you can add more nights- give Rome 4 nights and Sorrento 4 nights

Posted by
5649 posts

Fly into Venice - or Milan- and then out of Rome. Venice can be a problem flying out of with morning flights and getting to the airport.
Try Row Venice - whole family rowing lessons on the back canals, about 100 euros, 90 minutes, for your group. It's harder than it looks!
We were just in Amalfi this past May. I was really looking forward to visiting, but was disappointed.
Amalfi/ Sorrento do not have efficient transportation systems. The roads are very small and the train schedules somewhat of a suggestion. You'll be in the shoulder season, but still, the systems are out-dated and over-whelmed. Private drivers are nice, expensive, but are still on the congested roads.
The ferries are weather dependent. And the local SITA buses can be packed, not sure how much in Oct.
We experienced excessive rain when we were there, and found outdoor actiivities, and views , limited in such weather.
Pompeii is incredible, but getting there is a project. The Archeology Museum in Naples is also incredible.
Maybe adding Lake Como to the itinerary instead of a Tuscan town?
Just a few random thoughts.
Have a great trip!

Posted by
2201 posts

Don't completely write off Florence. Here's some ideas for things to do with kids.

I think it's great you are planing to take your kids to Italy. Sit down as a family and plan your trip. They will enjoy it much more if they take an active role in planning. We did a month long coast to coast pop up camper trip when our boys were that age. They took an active role in planning the route.

This trip will stick with them for life. I took a high school People to People tour when I was 15. It expanded my horizons and started a love for travel.

Posted by
4627 posts

Let them watch the RS videos on this site and see what appeals to them. People on this forum will tell you not to do it, but I've done Pompeii twice as a day trip from Rome and it was fine. If you do go to Florence, your 11 yr old might like the Science Museum with Galileo's finger. If your children like cats, the ruins at Largo Argentina in Rome hasve a cat sanctuary.

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No matter how many nights you are in Rome, you will not run out of things to do. Have gelato every day, you'll walk it off. Cities that are easy to get to by train from Rome include Bologna and Verona, but neither are Tuscan. You may get lucky at be able to go to a concert in Verona. Cinque Terre is easier to get to by train than Amalfi Coast. There you can hike or go to the beach, depending on which town you go to. Lake Como is very easy to get to and my favorite spot in Italy. Stay in Varenna, and ferry around to Bellagio, or Tremezzo. Easy to train to Venice from Como.

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I took my 15 year old son to Italy for the first time in Feb. Our first night in Rome, we did a really fun /tasty food tour in Trasteverse. There were kids younger than him on this tour but not many. We tasted great food and it was nice to move from one place to another between courses. Our guide was amazing.