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11 days with 3 teenage girls

Hi, I'm looking for some itinerary help for an upcoming trip in June 2022 with my 3 daughters. we are flying in and out of Rome. My plan at this point is :
Day 1: arrive, check in , walk around
Day2-3: Rome sites
Day 4: maybe day trip to Assisi
Day 5: train to Amalfi coast
Day 6-10: Amalfi coast
Day 11: Return to Rome to catch flight out next morning.

I'm looking for advice on Amalfi Coast section. We like hikes, beaches, wandering and relaxing. I'm wondering if we should spend all 5 days in one location such as Sorrento and then do day trips from there or spend 3 days in Sorrento and then a couple in Positano or Amalfi town. There is some appeal to not having to pack/lug bags/unpack multiple times but we also like to relax and experience a destination. Another question I have is can we get the Amalfi coast experience not staying in one of the bigger towns (amalfi/Positano) which are both pretty expensive. I have seen some cute and reasonable BnB's along the coast and wondering if there would be enough to do in these areas to keep us occupied.

Thanks for any recommendations/thoughts.
Becky

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I would recommend Sorrento for Amalfi Coast area. We stayed at La Magnolia Sorrento. www.magnoliasorrento.it. Its basically on the town square, 1/2 mile from train station and was very inexpensive and included breakfast. It was 60 euros. It was easy for day trips to Amalfi and Positano.

BTW, Assisi isn't all that close to Rome. It's 2-3 hours depending on mode of transportation. There is plenty to do in Rome that you don't need day trips, if you feel the need to get out of town a bit, Ostia Antica, is just a 1/2 hour.

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If you can deal with jetlag I would suggest heading directly to Sorrento when you land in Italy. It isn't a bad trip since the trains are so comfortable. Maybe, for something different and to let your vacation start early, take the boat from the port in Naples to Sorrento. The sea air and sunshine might be welcome. Sorrento is a good home base. Day trip to the Amalfi Coast towns. I suggest take the boat there and the bus coming back from Amalfi Town. Capri will be crowded so do not count on catching the last boat back - you might not get on. Sorrento, one of my favorite places on the planet, is a great shopping and eating city but don't miss the amazing sunsets!

From Sorrento head to Rome. You don't want your last day in Italy to be one of packing, moving, unpacking, and then a shortened last night on vacation. Getting back to the airport from the city is easy by train or car service or taxi. You can sleep on the plane so make your last night as full as possible. And, while on the plane, you can plan your next trip to Italy! There's lots more to Italy yet for you to fall in love with!

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A really good day trip from Rome would be Orvieto. Most of the trains are less than 1 1/2 hour one way. Fun funicular ride to get up to the town from the train station, gorgeous cathedral, interesting Etruscan sites, etc.

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Given you fairly short time, I would 2nd the suggestion to go to Sorrento on arrival day and have all you days in Rome at the end.

Amalfi Coast beaches are not the vast sandy expanses that are typical in Florida

A day trip to Assisi from Rome looks to involve 5-6 hrs of travel ( r/t). There is plenty in Rome to keep you occupied and not 'waste' 6 hrs sitting on a train/bus.

My $0.02

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Agree with moving on to Sorrento on arrival and putting all Rome nights at end

Your teens will enjoy Sorrento and could have some independence while there
Itโ€™s a fun safe town to wander around

Might take a look at Mondo Guides
www.sharedtours.com
Affordable way to see coast towns, Capri, etc

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I've been to both Orvieto(loved it) and Assisi( not a fan-I am a Christian, but I think it would have more appeal for someone from a Catholic background).

EDITED: When my husband saw my photos of the cathedral in Orvieto, he said Wow.

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Yes, going on to Sorrento is a great idea. I love a train ride upon arrival. It gives me a chance to get a little nap before exploring. Also, it makes sense logistically.

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Orvieto and Assisi have been mentioned as day trips. Honestly, I don't think you are in Rome long enough for either. Maybe the Tivoli Gardens (gardens with lots of refreshing fountains for a relaxing day) or Ostia Antica (ruins, especially if you didn't do Pompeii) - both are closer to Rome. That said, if you are a religious family then I can't recommend Assisi strongly enough. Yes, it's a long train ride but the experience of St. Francis is a powerful experience.

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Based on the current (weekday) train schedule, unless you're prepared to get your family up and moving early enough to catch the 8:02 AM direct train to Assisi, you will not get there until 12:04 PM at the earliest; that requires taking the next train, at 9:28 AM, which takes 2 hr. 36 min. The following train doesn't leave Rome until 11:11 AM. I agree that the travel time makes this a less-than-ideal day trip from Rome.

Although the area around the (very beautiful) basilica is hyper-touristy, the upper part of Assisi is medieval and much less commercial. I saw very few other tourists until I got down near the basilica. I'm totally non-religious but still think Assisi is a lovely place to visit; you just need to allow time to see something other than the area immediately around the basilica.

Orvieto is a much quicker trip. There's a 9:02 AM (weekday) departure that takes just 1 hr. 26 min. The 10:22 AM train takes 1 hr. 15 min. I'd push to take the earlier train, because Orvieto has a lot of sights as well as the large historic district. The tourist office runs interesting walking tours. Your daughters might enjoy doing some shopping there, too. (I don't know whether the Orvieto shops observe a midday closing period.) Orvieto has so much to offer It's totally worth spending a night or two--though I realize you don't have time to do that on this trip.

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8:02 AM direct train to Assisi, you will not get there until 12:04 PM at the earliest

The direct RV train #4724 departs from Roma Termini at 8:02 and arrives in Assisi at 10:09.

Day 4: maybe day trip to Assisi

Thanks to high speed trains you can get to Florence in 1 h and 30 minutes.

Day 5: train to Amalfi coast

In June you can go by ferry from Naples to Sorrento. Another option is taking an high speed train from Rome to Salerno and then a Trafelmar ferry to Positano or Amalfi.

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Dario, my sentence was perhaps too complicated. Being doubtful about getting three teenagers up early enough for that 8 AM traain, I wrote that if they didn't want to do that, then they wouldn't get to Assisi until noonish.

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Thank you all for these suggestions. Very helpful. My rationale for the Rome portion first was that we spend the first part of the trip with some hardcore site-seeing and then spend the second part a little more relaxed. We all love wandering around small ocean towns so this order seemed to make sense. I do see the point of the first day being a jet-lag recovery day and using it to complete some travel versus wasting a day in Rome, and then having the final day be taken up by travel again. Decisions, decisions!

Sorrento seems like the winner for where to stay on Amalfi coast and we love boats and water so will incorporate that into travel as we can afford as I'm guessing that is a bit pricier way to to travel :)

Pompeii would be a reasonable day trip from Sorrento right?

In regards to Assisi, we are Christian and animal lovers so willing to make the effort to go to Assisi. Also my teens aren't late-sleepers (weird right?) so catching the 8:00 train shouldn't be a problem.

Again, thanks for all your collective wisdom!

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In that case Assisi seems like a really good fit for you. I do highly recommend starting at the top of the town and wandering downhill toward the basilica.

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I traveled with my children starting when they were age 5 and 11, then later with step-children as teens.
i found that museums were difficult to maintain a long interest in kids from 5-9 years old, but we still visited museums. I will never forget when we entered the Sistine Chapel (first time) when my son was 7 and daughter 13. We were all amazed and my 7 year old was in awe. We sat on the floor and with a guidebook, I tried to explain the images for the Last Judgment and ceiling.

My view was to treat kids as adults as much as possible. Try to research where you will visit historical places and be prepared to explain to the kids the right information when they ask questions. In Pompeii, remember visiting the bordello and had to explain what prostitutes were.

I would not recommend taking such a long trip to Assisi from Rome. Consider Orvieto for a day trip. Also, would suggest more time in Rome, there is so much to see there. Don't miss the Pantheon, Trajan's Market, Capitoline Museum, Forum. Colliseum and of course St.Peter's and the incomparable Sistine Chapel.

As for where to stay in the Amalfi Coast, I recommend Sorrento. Consider a tour to visit the Amalfi Coast, since driving is not recommend, due to poor parking options and public transport options are poor. Don't miss Pompeii and Capri. Be sure to do the Blue Lagoon.

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Since you all love animals, when in Rome you might want to visit the cat sanctuary at Largo di Torre Argentina. Also, in case you do make it to Orvieto, thereโ€™s a very small park close to the Cathedral where the cats hang out.

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I'm going to echo what other people have said about the long (!) travel time from Rome to Assisi. Plus, frankly, my strong advice is to skip it. While I'm glad other visitors have enjoyed Assisi, we found that it's overly filled with shops and stands selling junk to tourists. Almost felt sacrilious, a lot of it, particularly down around the Basilica.

If you someday want to visit a place with a more sacred depth to it, visit the peaceful sanctuary of La Verna, a profoundly silent mountaineous site St. Francis himself used as a spiritual retreat. But that's more if a person has time for a leisurely visit to Umbria, which my wife and I hope to visit for the month of June while you guys are on your trip.

Your kids will love Rome - particularly if you go on a gelato hunt every day. You get two flavors in one cone - it's sort of a tradition. Both our daughters, now with children of their own, still talk about having the best ice cream of their teenage lives every day for a week in Rome.

Also, after a family visit to Rome three years ago, my daughters and their husbands raved about e-bikes you can rent as part of tours on the ancient Appian Way, a two thousand-year-old superhighway paved in stone. A lot of fun for kids, and an e-bike tour for everyone in your group will be affordable if you skip the expedition to Assisi. The Appian Way is where Romans themselves nowadays head for a Sunday afternoon picnic in the countryside. E-bikes out there are the way to go. My grandsons also told me that the acqueduct that runs along the Appian Way was awesome, and they got very excited about the flock of sheep that blocked the road for a couple minutes.

Like other people have said, the broad and beautiful sandy beaches of Florida are completely diffrerent from the rocky Amalfi coast. Terraces filled with olive and lemon trees climb up the hills. Great walking opportunities. But Sorrento is the better site for a "base" rather than Positano or Amalfi itself. From the gentle town of Sorrento, you can do easy trips to the Blue Grotto, Capri, and Pompeii.

You're spending a kinda long time down there, and may want to give more of Rome a chance. It has a great zoo (that's now a BioPark), if your kids like animals, and if you are plant lovers, check out the Botanical Gardens behind the Vatican. As far as food goes, the pasta anywhere in Rome is to die for. Spaghetti alla Carbonara like nowhere else. Be sure to check out long-stemmed marinated artichokes - a local speciality.

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I wish I had advice, but I can at least offer commiseration. I'm leaving for Italy in a week with my 13 and 15 year old daughters. Today is packing day and it's going about as well as you'd expect, lol! We are taking backpacks only. One daughter greeted this challenge by deciding to bring three outfits and wear them each 3-4 times. The other, is having trouble getting her clothes alone into her (much larger) backpack and wants to know if one of us lighter packers will carry her camera gear.

Anyhow, may your daughters get along and may they appreciate this lovely thing you are doing for them! May you have beautiful weather and magical moments. We will be in Rome for 5 days, so I will post a trip report that should cover what my teens most loved.