We are planning our first trip to Italy leaving the US on July 22 and leaving to return on August 2. It gives us about 10 full days in Italy if you count the day we arrive. It is my wife and I with our 16-year-old daughter. We really want just a good overall Italian experience. Our daughter is very laid back and really enjoys just hanging out and seeing things with us old people (and loves to find good food!). We don't love the big crowds and the big cities, but we do want to spend just a little time in Rome seeing the big sites to check it off our list. That being said, we have some time allotted for Rome but not much. Here is my initial shot at an itinerary:
Day 1 (July 23) Arrive Rome am and explore Rome
Day 2 Rome
Day 3 travel to and stay in Tuscany (Looking at Montepulciano, Cortona or Sienna)
Day 4 explore the area in and around where we stay in Tuscany
Day 5 travel to and stay in Cinque Terre (possibly Manarola or Vernazza)
Day 6 explore Cinque Terre town we stay in
Day 7 Cinque Terre area
Day 8 Cinque Terre area
Day 9 travel to Venice
Day 10 explore Venice
Day 11 leave Venice to Fly to US
I'm wondering if we are planning too much time in Cinque Terre. We do like a more relaxed trip and not be just running from day trip or hotel to another, but we also do want to experience as much as Italy as we can. Is there a good selection of local restaurants, etc. in Cinque Terre and a good place for "Italian" culture? It looks amazing but just wondering with our limited time if we should move more time to some other location like Venice or other.
We are also planning on traveling mostly by train so any Italy specific tips or advice there would be nice.
Any tips or recommendations on where to stay or eat in Rome and Venice (or anywhere else) would be appreciated as well.
Please critique with my attempt at an itinerary and thanks for your help!