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Traveling with teenagers

We’re planning to go to Ireland next year with a 13 and 15 year old. I’m wondering if Dublin is safe enough for a couple of teenagers to roam around together and do what they want to do while parents go roam around together to do what we want to do, or do you recommend that the whole family stick together?

Posted by
1637 posts

Not unless they are used to (grew up in) large cities in the US.

Posted by
5540 posts

With a 14 year old and almost 12 year old, well travelled children I'd keep them with me.

Posted by
21 posts

I would give them the same freedom that they have at home. Dublin is not dangerous. If they can speak English, navigate public transportation and have basic street smarts, why not let them wander off together?

Posted by
76 posts

Sorry, but I wouldn't do it.

While only you know the maturity level of your children, I personally think 13 and 15 isn't old enough to wander around an unfamiliar city alone. No, Dublin isn't inherently dangerous, but one small step off a curb, looking in the wrong direction (remember, they drive on the left), could prove disastrous.

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So far, I like Smith's answer best. I think the person worried about 2 teenagers "stepping off a curb" is a little paranoid. My kids cross a busy 2-way road every day by themselves at the bus stop. The older one has visited NYC three times within the past year already-- twice with her father and once in a school group of other teenagers to visit a Broadway play. With the high rate of access to guns in the U.S., I can't think that any Western European city would be nearly as dangerous as visiting any city in the U.S.

Posted by
2980 posts

Actually, Russ offers sound advice. There are numerous incidents reported every year in both the UK and Ireland about tourists who suffer a momentary lapse in concentration, look the wrong way at a street crossing, and step out into traffic... and those are just the adults. Nothing paranoid about it.
Only you can judge the maturity level of your kids, but I side with those who are inclined to give them a little slack to explore on their own as long as they're responsible enough to know what to do if things go south for any reason.

Posted by
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Thanks everyone. I think the approach we might take is to explore Dublin with the kids for the first 2 or 3 days until everyone is familiar with their surroundings, and then allow them a little more freedom once everyone is comfortable. We’re trying to raise them to learn to become independent adults. Here at home I allow them to walk around our small but heavily touristed town together without parents in tow as a long as they “watch out for each other.”

Posted by
2044 posts

With teens access to technology and phones I think sending them off together would be fine. Hopefully they have a cell phone with a plan so can call if lost or running late. Make sure to set the ground rules-where they can and can't go and what time to come back or meet up. Granted it was in the US but my parents let me and my older siblings alone when on vacation before cell phone, for a few hours. We knew where to meet up and the consequences if we were late or didn't show up on time.

Given the fact that Dubliners speak English and the signs are in English, I see no problems for a couple hours of separation.

Posted by
76 posts

I think your plan is a sound one. As for my comment about stepping off the curb....

When your kids cross the street, they instinctively look to their left. Everyday at intersections in places like Dublin and London, a group of tourists approach a busy street, glance to their left and then step off the curb...and into the path of a bus or car bearing down on them from the right. It happens over and over every...single...day. Here's an interesting (and startling) statistic: nearly one of every three traffic deaths in Britain involves a pedestrian hit by a car. Just sayin'....

Best to you...have a wonderful trip!