First off, have I waited too late to plan this trip? His birthday is on the 29th of May and the dates below work in our schedule, but I am somewhat flexible. This is the very rough first draft itinerary I've come up with. We will be renting a car and will be traveling WITHOUT our four children (but with four children we're accustomed to being very busy/active). Obviously, there is much planning to do, but I was hoping to get feedback on this general plan before I move forward. I luckily don't have too many specific "must sees" on my list right now but would appreciate feedback on whether is this looking like too much travel in too little time or a busy/doable trip? I've been perusing this and various travel forums and it seems "less is more" is a theme. Neither of us has ever visited Ireland. My husband typically plans the trips but I really want to surprise him with this one! Thank you in advance!
Day 0/May 23: travel
Day 1/May 24: arrive in Shannon early (~6 AM), see Cliffs of Moher and The Burren (interested in the local tour guides mentioned in Rick Steve's 2018 Ireland guidebook--anyone use these?)
Day 2/May 25: ferry from Rossaveal to Inishmore and return same day, and/or drive around Connemara
Day 3/May26: drive to Adare early, see Rock of Cashel, night in Adare
Day 4,5,6/May 27,28,29: Dingle and/or Ring of Kerry, travel to Kinsale for dinner on the 29th (birthday is on the 29th!) and stay in Kinsale
Day 7/May 30: hang out in Kinsale/Cork
Day 8/May 31: Travel to Glendalough via Waterford
Day 9, 10/June 1-2: Travel to Dublin early, drop car at airport, taxi back to city
Day 11/June 3: travel
Specific questions I have:
Should I spend another day (Day 3) in the Galway/Connemara area and skip over Adare and the Rock of Cashel visit then head to Dingle/Ring of Kerry area on Day 4 from Galway?
Any recommendations on a base for the Galway/Connemara area?
Recommendations for base in Dingle/Ring of Kerry area (I've read Killarney is congested with tour groups)?
Does the two nights in Kinsale seem like a good idea or should I distribute that time elsewhere along the trip back to Dublin?