Are there any women who have been on one of the tours as a single? I am recently widowed and would like to continue traveling but I’m very hesitant. I am interested in the Rick Steves tour to Ireland but not sure how I’d feel being one of very few (I assume) traveling alone. Any testimonials?
I lost my husband in 2019. I couldn’t face Christmas that year so I spent the week before Christmas on the Rick Steves London city tour. I had a wonderful time. There were two other singles on the tour. But I believe that even had I been the only single I still would have enjoyed the tour. I made friends with the singles and the married couples and had a wonderful week.
We've done one tour, and it was a RS tour. There were at least 2 individuals traveling "alone". I felt like everyone made an effort to be social regardless of whether people were part of a couple or had arrived on their own. After that experience I would not hesitate to do a RS tour on my own. I might combine it with a few days of independent travel on both ends, but, having a tour in the middle would, I would think, be welcome.
Hi, I have taken four RS tours - two with my husband and two as a solo traveler. The tours are set up very nicely for either! I do recommend paying for the single supplement, so you can have a place to relax, especially if you would like a short break as a new widow.
Julie, I’m sorry for your loss. Welcome to the forum.
I’ve gone on three Rick Steves tours solo and signed up for another one in July. My husband won’t travel. I have not done the Ireland tour but am visiting Ireland on my own plus visiting friends in Dublin, after the South of England tour.
Don’t worry about touring solo. South of France tour had six solos, Village Italy had two and I was the only one on Berlin, Prague and Vienna. I have found tour mates to be inclusive; I didn’t lack for companionship.
I always sign up for the single supplement. I’d rather have my down time than share a room with someone whose routine doesn’t match mine.
Thanks so much for all those encouraging comments. Now I just have to gather my courage and sign up!
I think it's a wonderful gift to yourself! We've been on 3 RS tours; and have always had at minimum 1 or 2 solo travelers. Only one 40 something male on one, but otherwise women. On our last tour this spring, there were both women friends/sisters traveling together and women traveling solo; and they tended to gravitate towards each other.
There's no way to guarantee how your group will jive, but we've never met anyone who wasn't friendly or warm. I think part of being on the group tour is that because you are all together for many activities anyway, that it really doesn't matter who is paired up and who is solo. During free time, you may click with individuals who may want to join you for an activity or you may go at it alone. So you would want to consider that your free time may play out in any number of ways.
And 100% pay the solo supplement. I cannot imagine sharing with someone you don't know. I think that's where the risk is. I don't know which Ireland tour you are thinking of , but we did the 14 day Ireland. It was amazing!
Many sympathies for your loss. I have done 5 RS tours solo - enjoyed them all and met wonderful, interesting people. As others have said, please do pay for the single supplement to have your own space. On my very first RS tour I was roommate matched with a very recent widow and she struggled with sharing space with a stranger (rightfully so). It was pretty awkward too and hard to give her space in some kind of small hotel rooms. About half way through the tour she privately asked the guide if she could pay for her own room, which they could accommodate because our tour wasn't at capacity. Not knowing where you are in your grieving, it would be a safer bet to start off with privacy and see how you do.
I’m sorry for your loss. I’ve been on one Rick Steves tour and it was as a solo traveler. I did the best of Scotland tour in about 2016. Everyone was friendly and the tour guide was great. There were 2 other women solo travelers about my age. We spent some time together during the free times. I’m still Facebook friends with one of them. The other couples were friendly and inclusive. I also strongly suggest paying the supplement to have your own room. It’s pricey but worth it to me. I’ve traveled solo on my own since then, twice to Italy and once to London. I think a tour is a great way to take your first trip by yourself. Good luck!
I am so sorry for your loss. And I commend you for wanting to get out there and travel. I have taken 17 Rick Steves tours and always as a single (my hubby is gone too). At first I shared a room, but now I like to pay the single supplement for more privacy. I have never felt out of place or left out. There are always so many welcoming people on the Rick Steves tours and many opportunities to do things or eat with other folks. I have never really felt comfortable having dinner on my own, lunch on my own is a fine thing and I often prefer that. But you can always find someone who is happy to have you join them for the non-group meals if you wish. I highly recommend going on a tour. Ireland sounds wonderful! It's on my list for 2026. I hope to see you out there!
I have been on three RS tours since my husband passed away in January 2022. In fact, the first tour that I took in September of that same year, I reserved when my husband was literally on his death bed. I woke up at 3AM one morning and decided I needed to put a stake in the ground for something that I could look forward to. My husband and I loved to travel and I made up my mind that I was going to continue traveling after he was gone. I felt very comfortable on all three tours. There were always at least one other solo traveler but it wouldn’t have mattered if there wasn’t because everyone was very welcoming and there were always people to hang out with, or time to spend alone when I wanted to do that. Also, this year I went solo on a non-RS tour and I found the same thing to be true with that group. I definitely recommend that you pay the single supplement so that you have your own room. Happy travels. I know you will do just fine!
Can you stand another positive testimonial? I’ve done 12 Rick tours, about half solo (the other ones with my brother and SIL). I wanted to add that Ive also done 13 Road Scholar programs, all solo and 3 Seymour Travels tours solo. (Mark Seymour is a former Rick Steves guide). A tour is a really easy way to do solo travel until youve built up your confidence and skills.
Best of Ireland is excellent and a good place for a tour. Public transit is a bit harder in Ireland and the tour takes you to some places that are harder to get to.
I’ll add that I always arrive a day or two beforehand to give some flex time in case of travel hiccups or delays.
I’m also very sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace and comfort in your travels.
I haven’t been on any RS tours, but would also recommend Overseas Adventure Travel (OAT). They have trips all over the world, including Ireland, and since they typically don’t charge a single supplement they attract many travelers like you. Their groups are small, usually no more than 16, and my trips with them have been a friendly mix of couples and singles. All of them have had at least several women who have lost husbands.
I traveled solo on one Rick Steves tour and met lovely friends (including single ladies) with whom to share a meal when I wanted, or go off on my own, whatever I felt at the time.
On another Rick Steves tour, I was with a friend. We met another single lady traveler and the three of us hung out together during free time.
Three other solo travelers on that tour (2 single ladies and 1 single man) became great friends and new travel partners.
They were all good experiences!