Thank you both. Sharon, we were considering a farm stay some time during our trip, and hadn't found many alternatives, so maybe this is the one. Here's a delicate question: does it smell "farmy"? Of course if one is visiting the animal pens and barns, that's to be expected, but I'd rather not have the smell of manure in my nose for our whole stay.
And you're right, the attractions seem to give us good family discounts. After pricing attractions in England (the first half of our trip), Ireland is a delight that way.
I've seen a lot of positive reviews of the Greenmount, but it appears to be booked up for our dates.
We're looking at the first Thursday-Friday in July, and have already found some difficulty booking the Friday. I'm beginning to wonder if Dingle is overrun? But we don't want to miss the peninsula--Gallarus, the beehive huts, Kilmakedaer...maybe there's somewhere else on the peninsula that would be a good base? We stayed in Tralee on our first visit, and would probably not return. (We recuperated there from an extended bout of airline-induced food poisoning, which has forever coloured what may well be a lovely town!)