My husband would concur with your daughter! I love castles but know that, for him, all things in moderation' is best... I have tried to balance - here is our tentative itinerary -
DUBLIN 4 nites
Day 1 Arrive - historical or Paddy Liddy walking tour, EPIC Museum, Jennie Johnston tall ship
Day 2 HOHO KIlmainham Gaol, Glasnevin Museum and Cemetery
Day 3 Malahide Castle, Str Patricks Cathedral for Evensong OR - Richmond Barracks, City Hall exhibits,National Gallery
Day 4 14 Henrietta St, Little Museum of Dublin, GPO Witness to History, Play at the Abby Theatre
The MIDLANDS 3 nites
Day 5 Pick up car (at airport?) Drive to Longford
Day 6 Belvedere House, Strokestown Park and Famine Museum
Day 7 Clonmacnoise, Tullynally Castle & Gardens, Kilbeggan (Lockes) Distillery
Day 8 The COAST 2 nites. Head to Castlebar/Ballinrobe 2 nites
National Museum of Ireland - Country Life,
Day 9 Westport and Clifden OR Ballina to Connacht Whiskey Company
Day 10 Mid Coast/outside Galway 2 nites
The Arran Islands OR Bunratty Castle
Day 11 The Irish Workhouse, Portumna
Day 12 Mountrath 2 nites
Irish National Stud/Japanese Gardens, The Curragh. Racecourse or Charleville Castle,
Day 13 Emo Court OR Thomastown/Newtown Jerpoint
Day 14 heading towards Dublin
Glendalough OR Russborough House
Day 15 To Dublin Airport
Day 16 Depart Ireland
Your thoughts would be most appreciated!!