JoLui: yes that is precisely what I was thinking.
We will be there in just a few weeks so will be high season and crowded I cannot avoid that and not really trying to avoid the crowds.
I just don't know if the crowds equal lines and chaos that would make it feel like a burden more than a fun activity.
Much in the way I would not recommend flying on a commercial flight somewhere for the fun/experience. To me that is just a means of transport and nothing more.
I should also mention the last boat trip we took ; my wife and daughter did not really enjoy and my daughter is now nervous of going on a small boat. Last boat was this Jan we went on a whale watch in Mexico on a small zodiak boat and the seas were roughed so we were tossed around quite a bit. Scared my daughter and my wife hurt her back. The large slow ferry would of course be totally different and in my eyes a good way to convince her that a boat is fun again as she used to like any chance to go on a boat.
We would not stay overnight ; nor pack a bag. Might bring a tote with a beach towel or similar but will be easy to carry anything we want just for a very short trip.
My options of using the ferry Santorini-Ios
There are early morning slow ferries on both days but I think although they give us much more time in Ios it changes the entire feel of the trip ; getting up at 5 AM just no longer sounds like enjoyable day of vacation so have nixed that.
Option A:
Tuesday - slow ferry; tickets only 6 euro p/p Dionisios Solomos ; about 20 euro for an assigned inside seat in business class
timing: 1 hr, 20 min
Leave at 11:30 get to Ios at 12:50
Stay only 1 hr. and 40 min (I realize this means really only 1 hour on Ios)
Would take a taxi from the port in Ios to the beach which is a 4 min drive away and spend the short amount of time there.
If once landed decide we don't want to see the beach ; could instead just go to the town and walk around for an hour.
Plan on having snacks / drinks on the ferry so we wouldn't arrive hungry.
Return ferry - slow ferry ; tickets only 12 euro p/p Anemos ; similarly can pay a little higher for an assigned seat in econ or a few more for business.
timing: 1 hr., 30 min
Leave Ios at 14:30
Advantage of this plan is we get back to Ios in enough time to still do anything we want this day and the cost is so cheap.
Anywhere between 20 euro and 40 euro per person which just to be able to get on a boat ride for that cost is not easy.
Of course the big downside is it only gives us such a short time on Ios to see basically just 1 thing quickly. If the ferry leaving Santorini is late than that is even less time.
Really if the boat is not enjoyable than plan A is quite flawed.
Not worried about missing the ferry return though or such issues as would not matter to us if late, and there is fast ferry that leaves slightly later we could catch instead should something happen.
Option B: next post below
Option C: scrap this and go on a more standard sunset cruise or similar excursion boat.
A private boat really is not within the budget.