TL;DR: Need recs for a 14-day trip in Bavaria/Austria for American family of 6 (kids 8-20 yo) - home bases, activities, accommodations, transportation.
I’m starting to plan a ~14 day trip to Bavaria for August 2025 before our second daughter starts college. Two items on her bucket list, since about 2nd grade, are to see Schloss Neuschwanstein (the view from the bridge is her goal!) and to visit Hohenschwangau.
We’re a family of 6, and our kids will be 20, 18, 8, and 8. We’re from the Baltimore/DC area.
We love nature/hiking (within reason given the 8yo’s), lakes & water sports, swimming pools, local food, playgrounds, window shopping; not opposed to some more touristy stuff as well if it keeps the kids happy (eg amusement park type things, alpine coasters). Not a huge museum family, and not big history buffs (although can appreciate the significance of WWII history in the area, we’re not looking to make a vacation out of history stops). We enjoy big cities as well as tiny towns. One of our favorite family vacations about 13 yrs ago was two weeks in Northeast Italy where we essentially stayed in one place and really got to know all the surrounding towns & villages.
It’s a pain to relocate 6 people too many times, so I’m looking for recs for a few home bases and then activities or places to explore from those home bases. Looks like a lot of beautiful hiking in the area, but the kids are not going to tolerate hiking every day — need to mix things up with variety. And days of relaxation, perhaps at a local pool with nice scenery, are perfectly fine, too.
I’m thinking of (1) Munich; (2) Füssen or Grainau or G-P or Mittenwald; (3) Salzburg or Berchtesgaden. But very open to suggestions, including other areas altogether in the region.
Also, any words of wisdom from others with similar size family re: accommodations and transport would be more than welcome. We usually look for Airbnbs when we travel, but very happy to look into local options that may be able to accommodate a family our size. Regarding transportation, we typically will rent a car to give ourselves more flexibility to explore, but finding vehicles in Europe that will seat 6 (+ luggage!!) seems challenging to say the least. And not really excited about a huge van, especially not knowing the terrain. (Had some hair rising experiences driving a small SUV in the Dolomites!) So maybe we’ll be stuck with renting two vehicles?
Thanks in advance for any help with any aspect of this!!