Hi Rita,
Sorry for the delay, but we were still on our trip when you posted your question. Here's what I can share with you about my recent trip to Fussen and Neuschwanstein.
The drive from Rothenburg ob der Tauber on a Sunday was fairly painless, as pointed out by MCHPP, the lack of traffic (trucks) made for an easy drive with no hassle at all. We gave ourselves plenty of time and arrived with time to spare. Also, RS's advice to skip the early parking lots and to drive past the ticket center to parking area 4 was a well worth it. We parked with ease and were in the queue to pickup our tickets in moments.
I will say this.. Neuschwanstein was major letdown compared to everything else we saw and did during our trip. The Tour there is very sterile, and you are rushed through from start to finish in 25 minutes. It's fitting that Walt Disney used this as his inspiration for his theme park, because that's where we felt like we were. Towards the end our our quick run through the tour, I had the man in front of me lean over to his wife and mention that he thought it was the worst tour they had taken in Germany as well. It turns out they are avid RS readers and followers as well. We were so let down that we skipped the hike up to Mary's Bridge in favor of getting out of there instead.
I do not say this to bring a cloud to your plans, but to point out that if Neuschwanstein isn't something that you are absolutely locked into doing, you may wish to save yourself the trouble of going all the way to Fussen for this one thing, as we found several other castles and historical sites far more interesting in other parts of the country.
Regardless of what you decide to do, I sincerely hope that you have a wonderful trip. My wife and I absolutely loved our Germany adventure and already can't wait to go back.
Best,
Robert