I realize some folks may have an ethical issue with this question, but please bear with me. I am a zythologist, the equivalent of an (o)enologist but for beer. I am a homebrewer, and am fascinated by the science of fermentation, as well as a great appreciator of beer & brewing (but not wine or spirits). From an early age I have raised my children to appreciate brewing, and have let them smell beer, but they have never tasted it because of U.S. laws.
This summer I'll be taking them to Europe, and we'll spend 2-3 days in Munich (in June - NOT Oktoberfest!!). My eldest son will be 13, but is extremely mature in both looks and manner - he could easily pass for 16 (5'9" & a mustache!). I would like to take him to the Hofbrauhaus (or one of the other biergartens) and let him sample a small glass of beer, while I'm present. My intention is not to let him get carried away, but instead to be able to finally taste beer, in a country that treats alcohol consumption differently than we, so that he can get some small exposure to something about which I am passionate.
I think I can legally buy it for him once he's 14 (and he can buy it himself at 16), but since this is probably the only time we'll visit Germany, I was wondering how strict they are. Would they ever verify his age, if he's with a parent? Would they defer to my judgment, or are they absolute about it? And although I'm not inclined, I also have a 10 year-old that has expressed an interest in tasting beer - I assume that's pushing it. I would like to hear from anyone that has RECENT experience in Munich, since Gemany raised the drinking age. Thanks so much - RS's forums are the best!
** EDIT: Please see my follow-up post below - I think I gave the wrong impression!