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My First Solo Trip to Europe — Lessons and Memories

I recently returned from my first solo trip to Europe, and I wanted to share a few things that I learned along the way. I spent around three weeks traveling across Italy, France, and Switzerland — and honestly, it was one of the best experiences of my life.

When I first arrived in Rome, I was nervous. I didn’t know anyone, and everything felt unfamiliar. But within a day, I realized how friendly and helpful people were. I stayed in a small guesthouse near Termini Station, and the owner gave me local food tips that weren’t in any guidebook.

From Rome, I took the train to Florence and then to Venice. Traveling by train in Europe was so easy and comfortable — much better than I expected. One lesson I learned: always book train tickets a few days early, especially during weekends, because they can sell out quickly.

In Paris, I stayed near Montmartre. The atmosphere there was amazing — artists painting in the streets, small cafés on every corner, and that beautiful evening light that everyone talks about. I spent one evening just walking along the Seine River, watching people relax and play music. It’s something I’ll never forget.

My last stop was Lucerne, Switzerland, where I saw snow for the first time! The views of the mountains and lakes were breathtaking.

If anyone here is planning their first solo trip, my advice is simple: don’t overplan. Leave some space for surprises. Some of my best memories came from getting lost and finding something unexpected.

Has anyone else here traveled solo in Europe? I’d love to hear how your experiences compared!

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Welcome to the forum!

Yes, quite a number of us are solo travelers and there are more who are solo sometimes when their partner doesn't want to go to the same place.

When I first started traveling solo I found I needed to have a timed entry for something the first morning to get me out of the hotel and going. Now, after 12 years of solo travel I don't need that as much.

What you'll find is that longer distance train tickets sometimes need to be bought several months ahead to get the best fares, depending on the country and the route. For the last several years I have always used the app of the train company I am traveling on as well.

Happy you saw snow!

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OP …nice report might want to post in the Trip Report Category.

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What a great first solo trip! I wrapped solo independent travel around RS tours for four trips, usually a week before and another week after. I learned I was very happy traveling by myself, able to go where and when I want and see what I want. 2026 I am traveling solo independent only since the tours do not go where I want to visit in northern Italy. Food tours, city tours and day tours give me social time.

You're right about not overplanning which I tend to do. However I give myself permission to change plans and throw tickets away if I see a "shiny object" that's more interesting. Also give yourself plenty of time for coffee and gelato breaks.

I buy first class train tickets so I feel more secure and choose my seat. First class tickets are almost always changeable and refundable if my plans change. (There's a concurrent thread from Elizabeth about luggage safety.)

One other thing I do that makes solo travel less lonely is I call my husband every night. He knows I'm OK and I know he is; now that we're in our mid-70s, that's important. I also text notes and pictures to friends to "share" the trip. Locals and other tourists are friendly as you said; some of my best memories are the people I meet.

Where are you travelling next? Happy Travels!

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If anyone here is planning their first solo trip, my advice is simple: don’t overplan. Leave some space for surprises. Some of my best memories came from getting lost and finding something unexpected.

Oh, that sounds interesting!

Can you tell us about an experience that you had where you got lost and found something unexpected?

-- Mike Beebe

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Can you tell us about an experience that you had where you got lost and found something unexpected

Yes +1

OP, I'd also be curious know-

What led you to solo travel? I'd say for many here it's old hat, that we take it for granted. But, for so many it's a challenging prospect and they're hesitant to take that first step. What words of encouragement would you share with someone contemplating solo travel?

How did you approach the solitude? Did you ever have feelings of loneliness? I can imagine for many, especially the more social/extroverted, feelings of loneliness could be an issue.