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Where to stay with 80+ year Mom - Her first trip

My husband and I are taking our 84 years old mother to Paris in mid Sept. We had been there 10 years ago but it is mom's first trip. And this trip (five nights) is all about Mom. We want to give her the best time possible. And we are taking it slow. Our tentative activities are RS Historic Paris Walk (Slowly), Ile de la Cité, Notre-Dame, the Latin Quarter, and Sainte-Chapelle. Champs-Elysées, Luxemburg, Tuileries Garden, Notre Dame and Cruise the Seine River. We might do Eiffel Tower depending how she feels but we plan to take her to Versailles. As a very good cooker herself, mom enjoy going markets, fruits and flower stands, beautiful gardens and good foods. Can you suggest which arrondissements would an ideal accommodation? I am thinking an apartment instead of hotel would be a better option for mom to rest and we also need two bedrooms. An stay with an elevator is a must due to Mom's bad knee. Thank you for time to response.

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Have you considered Île Saint Louis? It's a bit quieter than some central areas (e.g. the Latin Quarter). The Left Bank, the Right Bank, and Île de la Cité are all very easy to access from there.

The only downside is that it would be at least a couple of blocks from a métro station, depending where on the island you are.

Beyond that, I would look for a place very close to a métro station with an elevator or escalator. This site lists the most accessible métro stations (with wheelchairs in mind, but it would still be helpful info in your case, I think): https://www.parisinsidersguide.com/accessible-metro-stations.html

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I am in my 60s with an injured knee (so I feel your mother's knee) and just returned from my second trip to Paris this year and have been who knows how many times over the years. Do not be fooled by the existence of an escalator or an elevator at a station into thinking that the metro is a good idea if your parents absolutely need to use one. Elevators and escalators break or they are in spots that require a long walk up and down stairs to reach them. I'll give an example of a station that I know pretty well: Bastille station. It will show up as a station with escalators but one is for the upward bound 8 line which is 6 to 8 stories under ground at Bastille and the escalator takes you a set of stairs for the final two to stories. Another escalator takes you up the equivalent one flight of stairs after you gave gone up and down the equivalent of about 4 flights of stairs to get to it. And not to mention that the escalator on Line 8 was not working for about three days last week. I know that because I took the 8 from Bastille to the 2nd arrondissement and when I saw the out of service upward escalator, I took two buses back. I would suggest that you look for a place to stay on a good bus line; personally, I like Lines 86, 87, 69. Stay in Saint Germain or the Latin Quarter near bus line 86 or 87 (basically near Blvd Saint Germain). Bus 86, 87, and 69 take you to the Bastille market and 86 takes you to Marche Aligre/Marche Beauvau if you are interested in great food markets. When you look for an apartment if that is the way that you go, if you need an escalator, ask questions about how reliable it is and if it goes to the floor of the apartment. I stay in an apartment where you need to go up about 8 steps to get to the elevator and it stops one floor below the apartment. Frankly, after the elevator went out last month, I now advise people who need elevators to stay only in places with at least two. Why do you think that an apartment is a better option for your mother to rest?

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I'm afraid that you're incredibly late to try to find an apartment for this September. People book up the good apartments a year in advance.

If I were you, I'd concentrate on securing two rooms at a centrally located hotel. The Ile St. Louis isn't a bad option.

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I know you didn't ask about your itinerary, BUT I feel the need to speak up on behalf of your 84yoa mother WHO HAS A BAD KNEE. This is WAY too much walking for a 5-night trip. Out of the gate, I would drop Champs-Elysees and Versailles. If you want a day trip outside the city, take her to Monet's home and garden in Giverny, which will be stunning in mid-September. It's a small garden compared to the Tuileries and easily navigated. A visit to the Orangerie to see the finished product makes a nice pairing with Giverny (though probably not on the same day).
I cannot imagine that she would want to climb the Eiffel Tower, let alone stand in line for the torment of doing so. You'll see the ET from your seine cruise and, likely, other outings. A nice way to see it lit up at night is to have dinner aboard Bustronome (https://bustronome.com). It's a splurge, but the food is surprisingly good. And it starts at the Arc de Triomphe, rolls slowly down the Champs-Elysees, and passes lots of famous landmarks. She would have to navigate the stairs getting on and off the bus.

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I just realized that you mean this September. That could be tough but if you have a big budget anything is possible. Are you aware of the current issues around vacation rentals in Paris? Also, consider an aparthotel. That could get you two bedrooms but it may have to be outside of Saint Germain or the Latin Quarter. I put my brother-in-law and sister-in-law in La Clef Louvre for a gift trip and they loved having the kitchen and the central location and a person at the front desk for ask for help/directions. I don't think thatLa Clef has two bedroom suites but it is part of the the company that owns Citadines which has other properties in Paris that do; I think those are their Bastille location and the one near Trocadero but generally I have found that two bedroom suites are pretty hard to find at Parisian aparthotels.

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Speaking from the vantage point of 85 with a bad knee, for the river cruise I would suggest looking into the Bateau Bus. It is a rather basic cruise operation but they have nine stops along the river from the Eiffel Tower to the Jardin des Plantes and and your ticket is good for 24 hours of hop on hop off riding and it can be extended to 48 hours for a very small amount. We like it because there is so much to see along the Seine that it doesn't get tiresome and when we get tired of walking and need a rest we just say, "Let's take a boat ride." Have a great ttrip.

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I am close to your mother's age. The following comments are based on our experiences, June 2025. For Giverny, you can take a self-guided tour with air-conditioned bus for your transportation. If you want to go up the Eiffel Tower, book dinner or lunch at one of the two restaurants (pricey) but I believe they have their own dedicated elevators. Forget the metro - use taxis and have cash to pay them to avoid any credit card hassles. The lines to get into Notre Dame look long but they move fast - we only stood in line about ten minutes. For a hotel, see if the Citadines in Saint Germaine is available. We have not stayed at that one but the Citadines we used in London had two bedroom suites and a full kitchen. If you want more details, send me a PM.

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There are Seine cruises that don't require steep stairs. In fact, there is only one that does, the Vedettes de Pont Neuf. I'd avoid this one.

The Bateaux Parisiens are located on the Right Bank side of the Seine near the Pont de l'Alma. It has a gentle incline down to the boats.

The Bateaux Mouches are located on the Left Bank side of the Seine in front of the Eiffel Tower. There are steps but they're not steep at all, and have hand rails.

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As Cynthia suggested, the Citadines in Saint Germain is in an ideal location, or look for an apartment on Ile St Louis. This is our favourite place to stay, and although I've never caught a bus, I believe that one of the good bus lines crosses the island which would be perfect.

Citadines definitely has lifts, although I'm not sure about two bedrooms. I only stayed there once a long time ago and that was in a studio.

If your budget can run to it, do lunch at Jules Verne. We've been three times and it is perfect. Lunch is half the price of dinner and personally I prefer the daytime views anyway. We went for an anniversary dinner once, and the taxi drove us right to where we were met and escorted to the private lift. It isn't far and all flat, there is not a single step and the views are stupendous.

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Thank you for the valuable input provided here from all you. I did check a few properties as recommended. Unfortunately, Citadines in Saint Germain only has one bedroom available and we need a two bedrooms. I also check Edgar Suites Marais-Temple (4th arr) and Edgar Suites Lourve -Jour (1st Arr), N201 [assume this is apartment No on 3rd floor but booking.com said there is a elevator] and Hotel de I'emprereur (7th Arr, listed on RS Paris). Had any of you stay there. If yes, Can you please share you experience? Thank you!!

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I agree with other posters that the Paris Metro is not very accessible to people who cannot deal with lots of stairs. I definitely suggest basing your hotel choice on proximity to bus routes. All buses in Paris nowadays are low-floor and hopefully another passenger will be willing to give up their seat.

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@Philip, Most likely we will use Uber or Bolt for most of our sightseeing. The priority is to take of accommodation first.

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My happiest memory of my mother was the trip my husband and I took with her to Italy when she was 80 -- her only international trip except Canada. So many wonderful moments. Hope your trip is as wonderful as ours was. I still have the photo of the two of us dining in front of the Pantheon (my husband went home for the final week) and the three of us slightly sloshed in a cellar restaurant in Florence where the wine pairings were a bit much. Paris has equally wonderful places to enjoy and create memories and pictures. I can't tell you how happy I still am now that I am her age then that we provided her with this glorious trip.

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I would not plan on using the métro, other than maybe line 14 which has elevators at all stops. I would also omit Versailles, it is potentially too much, considering the crowds and the walking distances required. The bus network is excellent; the tickets cost only 2.05€ rather than the 2.55€ for the métro/Transilien train/RER. You might also want to have Bolt/FreeNow/Uber apps on your phone as backup.

September is the most difficult month to find hotels. There are trade shows, exhibitions, and conventions, all people looking for hotels, in addition to otherwise normal demand. It does not make a huge difference where you stay in Paris, almost anywhere can work. The tourist hordes gravitate to St Germain (6th), Latin Quarter (5th), or the Marais (3rd/4th); all central arrondissements. I would not overlook options in the 8th, 9th, or anywhere else for that matter.

Definitely consider an apartment hotel. Among those hopefully not already mentioned:

https://hoteldulevant.com/ 5eme

https://www.lockeliving.com/en/paris/le-jardin-de-verre-by-locke

https://www.pepperandpaper.com/ 5eme

https://yooma-eiffel.com/en/

https://www.roidesicile-rivoli.fr/

https://www.sejours-affaires.com/

https://www.apartmentsdulouvre.com/

https://www.paris-hotel-yllen-eiffel.com/

https://www.leprinceregent.com/

Accommodations would be my first order of business.

I typically suggest the Vedettes du Pont Neuf for river cruises but there are a number of steps required to reach the quai. For a truly unique experience, hire a private boat:

https://www.greenriver-paris.fr/

https://www.shivas.fr/en

https://www.lesbateauxdejulie.fr/

Book restaurants early as well.

If, at any time, there are medical concerns, check with the nearest pharmacy. They can issue some medications and will refer you to medical professionals as necessary. For emergencies, keep the number of SOS Médecins:

https://www.sosmedecins.fr/

+33 1 47 07 77 77
7/7 - 24h/24

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You know best for your mom, of course, but that itinerary sounds a little much for an 84 year old woman with a bad knee. (I'm more than 20 years younger with a bad knee and I wouldn't attempt to do all that in five days.)

Honestly, I'd at least skip Versailles, there is just no way to make that an "easy" trip for an elderly person with mobility issues. (PS...unless Versailles offers wheelchairs for guests, which I don't know. Maybe check and see if that is a possibility.)

The Jardin du Luxembourg is a good choice, as is the Tuileries. Both of those are BEAUTIFUL in September, and there are benches to sit and just enjoy the day. Maybe take a picnic, even. Walking around the Latin Quarter or walking down the Champs-Elysées might be a little much for her, though - maybe you could consider a bus tour so she can see those sights without having to walk so much?

Despite what some people said, you might still find an Airbnb at this late date, it never hurts to look! People change their plans sometimes, so cancellations might still pop up.