Our granddaughter is working in France. We planned on sending her some of her cold weather clothes but are finding it prohibitively expensive. UPS has quoted a rate in the $500 range (different quotes at 2 different UPS stores). USPS quotes rates between $87 and $177 depending on how soon we want it to arrive, but they caution that she will have to pay multiple hundreds of dollars in duties, taxes and fees in order to pick up the package once it gets there.
Am I missing something? These are her already-worn jacket and boots, not new purchases. Has anyone done something like this? Is there a way to reduce or eliminate the duties and taxes?