Dick – Referring to your earlier post, a pity that so less people nowadays are interested in history, but that´s the way it is.
Sorry if I´m contradicting myself about ending this thread sooner or later, like to add a few extra words...................................have tried to keep it short :-).
Part 1:
As said before comparing the aristocracy in France and England/Great Britain with each other is still interesting to my opinion.
Why aristocracy in England survived and in France not? Still keeping in mind what aristocracy in the latter during the pre-Revolutanary period had to cope with. Important is that both countries have two different mentalities, Northern European vs. Latin and I like to speak more specific in Europe everything influenced by the Mediterranean on one side, the northern Atlantic Ocean / North Sea on the other side, however use the labels NE and Latin to keep it simple.
Till The Renaissance Europe as a whole was strongly influenced by the Mediterranean, most obvious reflected in the all-embracing dominant presence of the Roman Catholic Church for instance, a legacy of the Roman Empire. During Renaissance that influence started to change dramatically. The whole economic and cultural center of gravity shifted in quite a short period of time from the Mediterranean to Northern Europe and unveiled a significant difference between the two blocks. In that period Northern Europe liberated itself not without struggle from that southern influence, you can see in this respect Protestantism for instance as a move to religious independance, but also the Dutch Revolt, our Eighty Years’ War against Spain.
As a whole you can see two types of people appear, Latin more hierarchical, familial, collectivistic versus NE being more equal, independent, individualistic and important one can see a more emotional, visible way of thinking and acting against a more rational, abstract way of thinking and acting. With visible I mean for instance with power that you show it like macho behaviour in person or in combination with material things like Versailles shows so well. These characteristics are deeply embedded in peoples character, having a profound influence on the course of history.
During The Renaissance Europe started exploring the world and started later world colonization as well. With that we exported not only our conflicts and competition, but among other things also our mentality, the hughe difference between USA/Canada and Latin America makes that clear so well and for instance more specific the relationship between the USA and Cuba, being so close located but so different. The official argument is capitalism versus communism, but to my opinion the basic disagreement is collectivism versus individualism, more broadly seen Northern Europe versus Latin, a clash between fundamentally different social values / attitudes and also economics.
With Castro Cuba has a “strong” leader (if that´s the case can always be discussed) but anyway he is the typical Latin macho, an omnipresent father figure liking to seize and also show power (like his notorious speeches) and how did it happen?......the revolutionary way, pushing away the former macho Batista. Not an isolated case as it characterizes as a whole Latin American political history being a playground for dictators and revolutionares.
With this the situation of pre-Revolutionary France is to my opinion very well to compare if not seen too symplistic. There are also people, surely the intellectual elite in Cuba who want to get rid of the regime and certainly they discuss that, wisely not in public, but what can they do? With another revolution getting a new dictator? Or with reason and negotiation, but does it really work, being possible? Risk to be put in prison or worse? Does the mindset of the people of the nation as a whole allow and support that? Well enough? Keep enough distance to that mentality were they are so much intertwined with?