A planche laden with cheese and charcuterie is not a French dining experience. It's something started in recent years in bars for the younger generation who don't want to or can't afford to spend the money for proper meals. It's sometimes served in a home nowadays when people want to imitate what you can get with a drink in a café, but it's not really French, nor is it a dining experience.
It's store-bought cheese and charcuterie laid out to look pretty with some jamy stuff and a bit of fruit. It's a salt, nitrate, and cholesterol bomb. In my fifty years of cooking for French family and friends, this is not something I'd serve. In a normal meal, charcuterie, if served at all, is in small quantities as a starter. The cheese comes after the salad but before the dessert.
We took American friends to a local restaurant here in France for lunch yesterday. The man ordered a planche while the rest of us ate real food. The waiter asked him three times if this was really what he wanted. Needles to say, he didn't finish it. The rest is in my fridge.
Go someplace that makes real food, something with a sauce, like Chez Dumonet, as Janet suggested. Janet's first suggestion of the I'Initial is excellent too. This Montmartre meal in a private home with stroll sounds intriguing. The others are very good, too.