Wait. You can buy the PMP at the airport, most museums which accept them (their selection will vary) and FNAC - music/book/electronics store. If you see a sign selling them and no line up, get them. It looks like a mini, folding map/brochure of all covered museums with a back cover where you write your name and first date of use. Folds to size of thick credit card or tiny wallet. Better to have before you go to an attraction as they sometimes run out of the different durations. Happened to me once. Didn't just buy what was available. Wasted time king somewhere else.
Eiffel Tower - take the stairs. There is virtually no line - ever. It's around 700 steps to level 2. You can buy tickets to the top when you buy you stair tickets, or at a booth or machine on level 2. The one time I got talked into booking a time slot, the lift to the top was under repair. Luckily, we had already been twice on the same trip. My daughter was 4 1/2 and friend was 6.
Arc de Triomphe - sometimes there are lines. I only recall 2 or 3 wickets. Oh, I believe you have to line up anyway to get a free ticket for the kids. Since you are lining up anyway, get your tickets there if not already in hand.
I don't recall where you would buy it at Notre Dame if not at the tower ticket office. The line up to get there is at least an hour. As someone said above, the line to see the main cathedral is long but it moves fast.
Louvre - you can't buy ticket without going through security. The line for pass holders is often shorter. Once it was insanely long but it was unexpectedly pouring with rain and everyone in the vicinity with a pass decided to go to the Louvre! Usually, shortest lines are underground mall entrance and Porte des Lions. Longest lines at pyramid - sometimes it's just an exit.
L'Orangerie - often long lines. I've never had to wait long with a pass - except again when it's raining.
D'Orsay - sometimes the line for pass holders (entrance C) is longer than those without.
While the PMP is invaluable for skipping lines and popping in to various museums, when it's raining, it seems like everyone decides to duck into a museum. Resist the urge. The only way to avoid the crowds is to do the opposite!