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Finnish Etiquette

We are going to be staying with friends in Helsinki for a few days. How do we thank them for hosting us? Is treating them to dinner sufficient? Or are flowers sent to their home more the norm? Or both?
Oh, and I believe they have a home sauna. Please tell me I can wear a bathing suit!?! Want to be invited back ;-)

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Is treating them to dinner sufficient?

That sounds like a nice gesture.

Oh, and I believe they have a home sauna. Please tell me I can wear a
bathing suit!?! Want to be invited back ;-)

Every family has their own traditions and norms and the best thing is to ask them. But in general, you don't wear bathing suits in a sauna in Finland. If you feel shy, use a towel. I'm not a sauna person, but from what I've heard from Finnish friends there is a big reason for that. Bathing clothes in a sauna get wet and hot and stick to your skin which can be uncomfortable, towels are much better for that reason.

Mandatory sauna music.

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Thank you for your quick responses. Will be hoping for a big towel ;-)