My son will be 16 when we travel. He has an autism spectrum disorder and his disability isn't obvious to a casual observer. We are used to paying adult prices for him for most things, but I'm not prepared to rent a second hotel room--it would be a bad idea to have him in a separate room in a hotel.
For instance, Premier Inns seem a good choice for us, with family rooms that accommodate 4, but they only permit 2 people over 15 ("adults") per room.
So--if you have experience with teens in such situations, do you think we will have trouble checking in to a family room? I am not comfortable lying about his age--NOT an example I want to set for my kids! But similarly, I don't like having to explain his disability everywhere (he's a teen, and he's hate having attention drawn like that).
I know we have alternatives, and we often stay in self-catering places for the extra space. But there are some budget accommodations that would be really useful if we can use them. Am I likely to be asked to confirm that he's eligible to be considered a child?
(I am not going to be trying to "sneak him in" for the child rate at theatres or museums or whatever--we have been paying his way since he was, at 12, an "adult" in Disneyworld!)